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writes:So... This guy I like has a girlfriend. And well you could just say that she basically hates me. I don't even know why. She doesn't know that I like him, but everytime I see her in school she glares at me and everything like that. Im a year older than her and obviously a grade above her. I wanna ask her what her problem is and tell her to knock it off but I don't wanna come off as too much of a bit**. Any help on what I could say??
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (13 January 2010):
 She sees you as a threat to her relationship with her bf...
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (13 January 2010):
 You're obviously giving off signals which tell her that you're after her boyfriend. People often behave differently around someone they're attracted to, and often a gf or bf will pick up on it when someone is after their partner. I'd say back off a bit, if he's interested in you then your turn will come.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 January 2010):
Either she does know that you like him or senses that you do and wants you to back off. Or it could just be in your head. When I was young and in jr.high/high school people would later on tell me after they got to know me that I was always giving them "dirty looks" when I had no idea what they were talking about.
I say avoid any sort of confrontation with her. Because I can almost guarantee you'll come out of it looking stupid, it's not going to solve anything, and could start a fight. Besides that, she's just glaring at you, I say, just ignore it. She'll stop if she sees you don't care.
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reader, girl from bristol  +, writes (12 January 2010):
maybe she does know you like him you may be giving signals that she has picked up on i would just ignore her and not worry what she thinks of you
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 January 2010):
Chances are she senses you like him and she's warning you off. Try talking to her about why she acts like this
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Confront her on this one but do it calmly one day when you see he glaring at you. If she gives you some stupid answer just walk away and try again some other time or talk to her bf. As long as you don't freak out on her you won't be seen as the bit**.
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