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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey, I'm kinda confused about a situation with a guy. We're both 17. He's in the same grade as me, but we are in different classes. My best friend goes to his class. So we went to a party together, him, my friend and I. We had a lot fun, and we spent a lot of time together, even though there were other people we knew. So I said hi to him a couple of times at school, we exchanged a few words, nothing special. Then he liked my picture on facebook, I know, it does mean anything. But I invited him to a party I was throwing but he couldn't come, he was going to the country side, and he kindly declined, writing a nice message to me. Then after the break, a week of holiday, we were back in school and we said hi to each other, friendly. Then he started acting really cold towards me, like when I said hi he didn't really talk just almost hurried away, I thought it was weird because I hadn't done anything to him. Even at a party we almost didn't speak and things like that. One day I wrote to him on facebook and he was reaally cold so the conversation died quickly. I asked him why he was so weird towards me one time at a party when he was drunk and he said he wasn't so I didn't think about it... Then he wrote to me a couple of days ago asking about a party I was going to with my friends. We decided to meet up and we exchanged phone numbers and talked a bit on the phone and he was nice. So at the party, we talked a lot and just had A LOT of fun together, I really think that he's a nice and funny guy, different from others, in my opinion. He even like touched me alot and started taking my things ( nicely) and teasing me. When we left we kind of did play/fun fighting and he just acted like most guys do when they are "into" a girl. I don't really know... It was a nice evening but guess what? When I saw him at school he was kinda cold again! So frustrating... So what do you guys think about this? Oh and I've also caught him looking at me a couple of times but when he acts so cold, I don't want to seem pushy so I don't really act on it ... I kind of like him because when he's nice, he's really nice and funny and just the way I like a guy to be...
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reader, Abella  +, writes (11 February 2012):
 He most definitely does like you, but he is still testing the water and he is not sure.
He does not want to make a fool of himself.
But by his actions he has already revealed a bit of 'like' for you. He is a definite possible YES by the looks of things.
You could, just for fun, send him an anonymous Valentine's Day card and see how he acts as a result.
If he really really wants to know if you sent it then it is up to you whether you tell him (which will confirm that you like him too) or deny it (and watch him go cold again)
But still be cautious, as guys in this age group CAN (not all do) love one day and like someone the next day. Sometimes they are not even sure from one day to the next who they like.
if he's genuine he will eventually start to try to make contact with you more often.
Maybe 'accidentally' just happen to meet him and stop to talk to him. Ask him about himself. Ask him how his day has been so far. Smile at him. tell him how much you enjoyed the time you spent together earlier.
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