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writes:hi i confessed to my bf that i was able to screen his calls and that i noticed a particular number he kept ringing he got mad but told me he would tell me. But he came home and ignored me today, hes told me hes going to beat me because of it.... i dont know wot to do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): This is not a case of simply petty arguing, hun. Your bf has threatened to beat you and I for one, take that seriously when someone writes in and tells all of us that . Why on earth, would you ask 'what do I do' when you are being threatened with bodily harm. It would seem getting out of a bad, dangerous situation would be a good idea, dear. Don't cop-out on your obligation to protecting yourself. If you are living/dating/married to a man, who has threatened to 'beat' you...you get the hell out of there. Do not be one of these females who are too afraid to do something about it. Don't sit there and not take action. Do not detour around taking assertive steps hoping the monster with in this man will magically disappear. Has he ever beaten you before? If so, I suggest you leave and get yourself into counseling to find out why you would even consider tolerating this abhorrent behavior of his.. At counseling, you will be taught to get yourself fully developed, to put some value on yourself and to find the personal courage to live your life without fear of reprisal for every little mistake or error you make. Doing all this will ultimately determine and change the quality of your life at present and your future. Remember, your weakness and his evil make natural bedmates. Without one, you can't have the other. And when you leave, stop into the police station and let them know he has threatened you. No one and I repeat, no one has the inalienable right to ever threaten another person with violence. Please value yourself-get proactive. Good luck my dear and be strong.
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (6 February 2007):
 Get out of there fast! He probably would beat you! Unless you're a badass martial artist which I dont think you are. Seriously, get away from him and on to somewhere safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): get out of this relationship,any man who beats his woman is worthless and deserves to be alone
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reader, cd206 +, writes (6 February 2007):
 Any man who threatens to beat his girlfriend is a loser who cannot be saved. Move out immediately and move in with a friend or relative. If neither of these is an option go to your nearest womens' refuge who can help you find accommodation until you find something permanent.
CD
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reader, mum2be +, writes (6 February 2007):
You need to get out of the house ASAP.
Try talking to your partner with a family or friend present at a time when you have both had the chance to cool down a bit. You need to ensure your own safety at this point, and make sure he knows that he can't treat any women like this.
I hope things work well for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): threat or intent..no man should ever hit a woman or vice versa. i suggest you get out of the house and stay with someone safe, let them know wats happening.
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reader, Pretty and proud +, writes (6 February 2007):
 get out of the house and go to a friends house. if things get bad call the police
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