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writes:i have 6.2 inch penis 4.5 inch straight and and around 2 inch slight down curve.. i had sex with thirteen different girl but i never get any negative comment but i still fell insecure because i think i m not able to satisfy and make girls orgasm in missionary position ,, i think i cant hit g spot in that position.. pls tel i do always research on this topic i know about position behind from girls is the best but i want know something different from you. i also heard that from that point penis get curve it hit the g spot .. because vagina g spot if it exist but scientist say its also not conform,, can hit my penis because i have 4.5 inch straight in missionary position.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (1 February 2014):
 Now this is sad, sharing your measurments and all is not going to earn points. Sex is not a destination it's a journey. It's about the smell of her hair, the taste of her skin the touch of her hands on your back not the orgasms.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2014): Think of it like filing. I has to come before u
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reader, GRIFF TANNEN  +, writes (31 January 2014):
 Could you convert those measurements to metric? Would give me a better picture of what we are dealing with here.
Too be honest I think you are worrying about a problem that really isn't a problem. I'd only start worring about it if the women you are with start complaining. Which doesn't seem to be the case right now?
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reader, llifton +, writes (31 January 2014):
 Have you tried oral sex it your hand to get your girls off? Sex doesn't have to just be about a penis.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2014): you probably one of these guys who think that women can reach orgasm through intercourse. Most women can't.
Clitoris is the same as penis in men. To reach orgasm for a woman through intercourse is almost the same as you put you fingers inside from vagina instead of your penis and come from that.
You are young so its your excuse that youdidnt know that, but I know plenty of men who are in their 40s and still think women can come from intercourse.
also to reach orgasm for a woman through clitoris stimulation takes at least 20 minutes. men need to be very patient about it, and don't ask a woman any questions as it distracts easily.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (30 January 2014):
 You want to give a woman a G-spot orgasm? Easy…it is not the size of your penis, it is the size of your brain that counts. Stop thinking like a common man who thinks sticking it in is the way to a woman’s heart. Here you are thinking of yourself like a typical man. How many women you had, how big it is, and guess what? You are still failing the basic rule….Your PARTNER FIRST!!!LEARN your woman. Study what she likes and don’t like. Do not judge, do not disrespect. If she like something sexual and you don’t, do not criticize her. A woman should be completely free to express her sexual needs.PLEASE oh PLEASE do not start off sex by sticking your 6.2 in there and try to hump her brains out. GOD gave you two hands, lips and a tongue for a reason…Use them. Your 6.2 should be there to finish what you started, not finish before she starts. If she is not dripping wet, she’s not ready yet. The more turned on she is, the easier it is for her to have a G-spot orgasm. NOTE*** The more turned on she is...not you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2014): Take it from someone who has many years of experience with women, the g spot has been over hyped. Believe me when I tell you that few women consider their g spot to be their pleasure center. It's all about the clitoris. That being said, the g spot does exist and can for some women be from a mild to an extreme pleasure center. I have found that in the vast majority of women if you truly know your way around the clitoris your as good as gold. Every woman is different and it takes patience,communication and a desire to please. But is't that the fun of it anyway? Bottom line, don't worry about her g spot, her vagina, her anus, or anything else until you have mastered her clitoris. And do not think for a minute that just because you figure one out, that the rest will respond the same.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2014): If your penis curves down, then yes, going from behind will give better g-spot stimulation. There are a lot of positions, lying down/bending over/standing up, I'm not going to go into details, but an online search can teach you a lot!
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reader, Myau  +, writes (30 January 2014):
 different horses for different courses. Women are not all the same.
Missionary might make one girl climb the walls, but it will bore the next one to death.
So do something else that she likes. try a few things and have loads of foreplay.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (30 January 2014):
 Accept that your penis isn't a magic wand.
Climax (orgasm) for women through penetration ONLY is not as common as most men thing. I believe it's 20%? or less of women who can orgasm from penetration ALONE. MOST women need clitoral stimulation to climax. (and the G-spot is basically the "underside" of the clitoris.
Your best bet is to use a finger or two on the clitoris at the same time. Also maybe try other positions then missionary?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (30 January 2014):
 Me neither; but I keep trying!!!!!!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (30 January 2014):
 Most women can't have an orgasm through sexual penetration alone, so it's not just you. Also, if you have a downward curve in your penis, that makes it a little bit tougher because guys with an UPWARD curve have a tiny bit more success in that area.
It's good that you're interested in your partner's pleasure. Don't limit yourself into thinking that it has to be your penis that delivers it. Your fingers, your tongue, any sex toys, having her do "reverse cowgirl" so that your curve can point in the right direction are all possibilities. Missionary is good for a start, but don't wrap your entire sexual identity on it.
Also, a woman's center of sexual pleasure is NOT her vagina. Most men make that mistake...it's the clitoris. Saying it's just the vagina is like if a woman were to only consider your scrotum as the only way to sexually stimulate you. You would emphatically disagree and guide her hand or her mouth to your shaft, right? Same with the clitoris. It's not the vagina, it's the clitoris. Even the "G" spot is all about indirectly stimulating the clitoris.
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