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I asked him out over facebook messaging 3 days ago and he hasn't replied! Why?

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Question - (11 June 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, *levatorgirl writes:

So I'm sad and confused right now. A little less than two years ago, i started to have a crush on a guy in my class, "Sam". Sam had a girlfriend, a really pretty one, but he would look at me sometimes during class, and if i would look at him, he would look down really quickly. He smiled at me one time too. I think he knew i had a crush on him. But he's really popular, and basically the only people in the school he dosen't talk to in the school are my friends and I, the "geeks." Just three days ago, i finally got up my courage and asked him out over facebook messaging. He hasn't replyed back yet. Does this mean he just dosen't like me anymore? Or is he worried about what his friends will think?

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A female reader, ohbabycakesxx United States +, writes (12 June 2012):

Have you ever watched "He's Just Not That Into You" ? In one scene, the guys tells the girl that if the guy is interested, he will definitely make the first move. Girls just misread too much, maybe he was just being friendly and you think its something else because you like him. And you said he already has a girlfriend right? Don't homewreck. You wouldn't like it if some girl got in between you and your boyfriend.

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A female reader, PerhapsNot United States +, writes (11 June 2012):

PerhapsNot agony auntHe isn't interested in dating you. He may enjoy flirting, or hanging out, but he doesn't want to date you or have you as a girlfriend. If he did, he would be with you. He already has a girlfriend, and even if he were single, he would have replied or asked you out himself. Basically, he's not into you like you are into him. Move on.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (11 June 2012):

Honeypie agony auntDoes he still have a GF? If so, why ask him out?

Also, if you really want to get to know him (IF he is now single) why do it over Facebook? Why not talk to him in school?

Also, MAYBE he just doesn't get on every day on FB?

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A male reader, Athz India +, writes (11 June 2012):

Athz agony auntWell he already has a gf, but on the otherhand it seems he has kinda crush on you! Still this is not enough to hope that he likes.. And if didnt reply then you should check for any activity on his fb profile so that you would come to know whether he has really ignored your message or not..!

Hope this helps.. :)

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