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Why did she have to exchange numbers with a pervert and a complete stranger. HELP!

Q.   This is going to be a long one but what I'm saying was suspicion until I saw it with my own eyes. She has changed and has been hideous for which I think the situation that I've mentioned below might be the reason. So here it goes. Hi, my girlfri...

A.   2 November 2016: Also by having sex I don't mean to say that she's bound to stay faithful but that intimacy that we shared, it would probably make a person feel that he/she is doing wrong by exchanging numbers with complete strangers. ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend's clothes are, 'Not acceptable to me'.

Q.   Me and my gf are recently fighting over this issue that is her "Clothes". Sometimes she wears disgusting dresses which are revealing and I really don't like it. When I tell her not to wear such dresses she doesn't listen and gets agitated. The dres...

A.   2 November 2016: Thank You for all your replies to my problem, But I'm not controlling her. She has changed and has grown pretty insensitive towards me. She really doesn't respect me anymore like she used to. I've given her the freedom of wearing what she wants but ... (read in full...)

How can I stop myself from sharing cropped nude pictures of my girlfriend online with other guys? It gives me a thrill even though it's wrong

Q.   Hi friends.. I have been Sharing nude pictures of my girlfriend but before that cropping the head of the picture and then share with other guys on an anonymous social networking website it turns me on when i share it.. I then wank over it.. Im ...

A.   26 September 2015: I know I have done wrong... I'll go cold turkey now.. Stop this once and for all.. I love her truly. I cant tell her that I've done this but I promise myself that I'll not do it again.. Its gross.. Thank you for your help.. ? ... (read in full...)

Do I call her less to make her miss me? The intensity has left our relationship!

Q.   Hey guys, this might be a long one.. So its like this girl that I'm in a relationship love each other.. We studied in the same university and eere were here till the last DeDecember now I'm still here in this university and she has moved to a differ...

A.   15 February 2015: Well.. After she left the university I met her twice since then first in December and then at around 20th January.. Actually the Relationship will remain long distance atleast till im finished with my engineering and that will be in Dec 2015 or May ... (read in full...)

How can I tell him I'd rather have a piece of jewellery than chocolates as a present, and not sound ungrateful?

Q.   So, on my birthday my boyfriend (of about 9 months) bought me chocolates, along with taking me out for dinner and dessert. I enjoyed it, afterwards we spent some time together on the beach and I acknowledge he did spend a fair amount of money on...

A.   29 October 2014: The way in which you're thinking is sweet. You can simply tell him that "I currently don't have anything with which i can remember you or think of you when you're not with me. Something that'll stay with me and make me think about you when I'll look ... (read in full...)

After her meeting with her ex I don't trust her

Q.   Hey guys, My relationship it was going great, we understood each other very well. She loves me but her x-bf is irritating her. He still thinks that they're together but they're not. We study in the same college and I went home for a week. She had ...

A.   29 October 2014: Hey.. YouWish i completely get what you're trying to say I want to help her and i am by telling what to do. I want to fuck the shit out of him but the problem is that she doesn't wanna involve me in this because it is going to create a greater ... (read in full...)

I don't like that my girlfriend's dance partner pulls her close. Do I tell her?

Q.   Hey guys, Let me get straight to the problem.. My girlfriend has joined the dance classes and she went there today and she was telling me what happened there! Told me that theres this guy his dance partner.. While dancing he tends to pull her hard...

A.   13 September 2014: I trust her but you know its the behaviour of mine that makes me feel this way.. Its just that, the other guys touching her while she dances makes me go crazy but I control it.. maybe it's because i feel jealousShe loves me and I ?oo love her.. I'll ... (read in full...)

How do I get myself back into talking to girls again?

Q.   Hey there everyone, I have a problem and this I have never faced before and yes I can't understand what to do about it so I'm need of sone some immediate help.. So it goes like this, I had fallen for a girl and a she was a great girl! We stayed ...

A.   26 December 2013: Thanks guys.. ur words inspired me and cleared my mind and now I know what I gotta do! Have a nice day.. :)... (read in full...)

Will she ever love me? Any good advice on what should I do, to make things better?

Q.   Its been a year now since i have been with her. She was in a relationship with her bf since 5yrs but their relation was having a very rough time! Now they have broke up and its been around two months now, i am still with her supporting her caring f...

A.   5 June 2013: Thats right.. Shes an extrovert and is nice to everyone but im deeply into her.. I tried to move on but damn i failed.. Im confused and cant get over her! :(... (read in full...)

Will she ever love me? Any good advice on what should I do, to make things better?

Q.   Its been a year now since i have been with her. She was in a relationship with her bf since 5yrs but their relation was having a very rough time! Now they have broke up and its been around two months now, i am still with her supporting her caring f...

A.   3 June 2013: Dude she didnt... her bf was an ass he cheated on her and then she was forced to break up with him.. she cried for him to be with him but now she has recovered alot.. ... (read in full...)

She loves me and doesn't want to hurt him (boyfriend)!

Q.   I dont understand what it is like.. She loves me but she says she doesn't want to hurt his bf.. Shes confused.. but today his bf came to know that she talks to me..So its like everything is shattered right now! I was talking to her n we both were c...

A.   7 December 2012: well thanks for ur answer.. but will you help me by telling that what should tell her in a convincing that she should do as you just said? thanx.. :)... (read in full...)

What am I to her? Is she playing me and her BF? How can I make this situation better?

Q.   Hi, I'm confused and I need some good advice from you people I will explain everything thing in a bit of detail so that I could get some good and satisfying help! I met this girl in an exam center through a mutual friend of mine.. She was my frien...

A.   18 July 2012: Thank you friends... Your helpful words relieved alot of pressure on me... I wish that things go the right way! I have decided to wait for some more time so that I can completely figure out everything & satisfy myself.. Once again, thank you ever... (read in full...)

What am I to her? Is she playing me and her BF? How can I make this situation better?

Q.   Hi, I'm confused and I need some good advice from you people I will explain everything thing in a bit of detail so that I could get some good and satisfying help! I met this girl in an exam center through a mutual friend of mine.. She was my frien...

A.   18 July 2012: Thanx for all your help friends... I really dont know how to do this...! I feel myself stuck... I dont know how to confront her and ask her without ruining it! What to do? :/... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing? She's a friend but acts like more than one...

Q.   She was crying and upset and was missing her ex-bf..! She called me and we talked i tried to console her but wasnt able to it very well..! After sometime she said that she will talk to me later. I told her to be strong and not give up to these...

A.   13 June 2012: She doesnt want him she left her because she knew that thier relation had no good future later.. So she broke up with him..! And maybe you are right that she`s kinda using me, lets what`s next.,!... (read in full...)

He said porn was better than me, now he finishes too quickly with me!

Q.   Hi all, got quite a long story to tell and i want your advice. I'm 25 and when I met my boyfriend he was a virgin, he's 36. Well, he has been masturbating to visuals for nearly 20 years. I entered into a relationship with him not really thinking ...

A.   12 June 2012: he's too much into porn... and the ill effects of excessive masturbation has made him less sexual.. Masturbation is an extreme case in which a person uses high pressure of his hand as compared to the p---y.. He should stop masturbating otherwise his ... (read in full...)

I asked him out over facebook messaging 3 days ago and he hasn't replied! Why?

Q.   So I'm sad and confused right now. A little less than two years ago, i started to have a crush on a guy in my class, "Sam". Sam had a girlfriend, a really pretty one, but he would look at me sometimes during class, and if i would look at him, he ...

A.   11 June 2012: Well he already has a gf, but on the otherhand it seems he has kinda crush on you! Still this is not enough to hope that he likes.. And if didnt reply then you should check for any activity on his fb profile so that you would come to know whether he ... (read in full...)

She said that she can never love me but kissed me!

Q.   She is not in contact with her bf anymore now.. We have kissed when she considers me as her friend..! She said that she can never love me..! And thats because of her x-bf, should wait..? Is there any chance that she will love me as her life ...

A.   11 June 2012: thankyou everyone for all yur help and advice this would atleast help me out a lil! :)... (read in full...)

She said that she can never love me but kissed me!

Q.   She is not in contact with her bf anymore now.. We have kissed when she considers me as her friend..! She said that she can never love me..! And thats because of her x-bf, should wait..? Is there any chance that she will love me as her life ...

A.   11 June 2012: Well I dont want to let her go... She says she can never be mine and maybe shes right..! But what about me i cant stop myself from loving her i just wish that with time maybe she would love me like i do! I just wish thst i dont have to wait fore... (read in full...)

Why is she not able to move on and forget him? How can I help her out?

Q.   Its been about a month now we talk to each other share things i even went to her place somedays before and we kissed each other for d first time.. Its been about a week she broke up with her bf but when she talks to me, she cries and says that she ...

A.   8 June 2012: They have been in a 5 yr relation. She doesnt want me to go away from her.. She loves me dearly but says that she is not able to give me the place in her heart that his ex had..! What should i do? I need some advice.. :)... (read in full...)

Does she love me? Am I just a friend?

Q.   I met a girl through a mutual friend of mine! I got in contact with her the day we met. She became attached to me, a lot.. But later i discovered she had a bf but was going through a rough relationship. His bf started to hav problems frm me becoz he ...

A.   8 June 2012: thanx 4 yur advice!! :)... (read in full...)

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