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Hey im 18 live in the uk. i dont think any thing qualifies me to help people i just would like to think that what i say dose help people i dont really think that all or what i say or any one else for that matter always helps the person seeking answers to the questions they have all any one can do is give there opinion on the matter and holp that it helps. people tell me that i gd to talk to if they have a problem and needs some advise and that im gd at helping them sort out what they want to do but im not so gd at doing that for myself i can help other people but mess up every time i try to help my self i think that shows in the relationships i have they never work out and theres never any thing i can do about it ha most of the time i dont think i really want to do any thing about it thats probs y i seem to make it worse cuz thats wot i think i seem to really wanna do.

Should I ask this girl out even though she is my exes best friend?

Q.   I recently broke up with my girlfriend and there is this girl who i kinda want ask out but the only thing is that she is my ex's best friend. I really think she likes me because when i see her outside of school she makes an ecuse to give me a hug....

A.   10 September 2008: if u and ur ex had a good split and ur still friends then u should just ask her if she would mind if u asked her friend out if it was a bad split then i would leave it for a few weeks u dont wanna hurt her any more than u have to good luck hope this ... (read in full...)

I am eleven years old, and I can't stop thinking about sex, and having sex, how can I stop this?

Q.   Hey aunts and uncles im 11 and lately i have been really into sex and i want to have sex really bad. Any ideas on how to stop this feeling?...

A.   10 September 2008: hey its normal to think about sex but u shouldnt rush into it ur only 11 and that really is to young to be going out and having it u should wait untill u are abit older and understand wot u will be giving up and who to u dont want to do something ... (read in full...)

Internet relationship - she cheated on me and the pain is just getting worse... Should I do the same to her?

Q.   My online girlfriend who lives 2000 miles away had a one night stand at a party with some random dude the second week of us knowing each other. What hurt the most was that she was talking to me that night on msn too, while at the party, and pretty ...

A.   10 September 2008: hey im sure that she probs is really sorry that she had sex with that other lad but thats just it its just sex a one night stand that didnt mean anything ur the one she is still talking to and trying to work things out with i dont think u should do ... (read in full...)

When ever I look at the new boy, he's always looking at me and smiling, what should I do? (I have a boyfriend)

Q.   theres a new boy in my class who i really like. Every other girl really likes him as well. The things is though, i have a boyfriend of a year who i love so much. the thing is though, he's in the year above so my boyfriend has already started ...

A.   10 September 2008: if u love ur boyfriend then u shouldnt really do any thing but u other lad could just wanna be friends she how things go if he comes up and tells u that he really likes u then u will just have to tell him sorry but i have a boyfriend who i love but ... (read in full...)

He flirts at me and I flirt back, but I don't understand why his wife would be mad when I'm only in high school!

Q.   About a year ago I met this cop in my town. Im only 17, and I never used to pay attention to him. Then I noticed he was really really cute, and I started talking to him. I found out he was married, but had only married a few months before then. He ...

A.   10 September 2008: u shouldnt need to ask y his wife would be mad at u just because ur only in high school dosent mean ur a little gile u should understand by now that a married man is off limits u may have a crush on him but u shouldnt do any thing bout that it is ... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing in ending it?

Q.   hey i was with my ex for 2 months but i never had sex with him i just wasnt ready he said that he understands and that he would wait till i was ready. so any way one night i went out with friends got drunk and he thinks for some reason i had sex ...

A.   8 September 2008: thanx aphexinfinite for the help iv already did all of that and didnt make things better i think he dosent no how to trust cuz all his gf in the past have used and cheated him and he think i did the same he said that if i wasnt sleeping with him i ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend told me she cheated on me and I cant look at her the same anymore..advice?

Q.   hi i am a 16 year boy old that needs a woman's view on how to deal with my relationship. my girlfriend told me that she cheated on me a month ago, twice. two days after she cried in my arms and told me she was going to have a baby. she even said ...

A.   8 September 2008: I understand that u love her but if she can cheat on u them she dosent love u from wot u have said ur girlfriend isnt a very nice person im sorry to say that cuz now that makes me sound like i dont give people a fair chance any way u should find a ... (read in full...)

I don't want to lose him! Should I sleep with him? Help!?

Q.   hiya.. ive been with this man for a few month and its been perfect.. just he rang me saying is this going to go further ? .. I havnt slept with him yet .. and im only 16 .. hes 20 .. im just scared incase he only wants me for one thing .. and i have ...

A.   8 September 2008: Hey u sholdnt sleep with him just to keep him. ur only 16 its normal to still feel nervous about sex. if u dont want to sleep with him yet dont it is up to u tell him ur not ready and ask him to wait if he says no then he dose only want u for sex ... (read in full...)

I may be too needy and others don't respect me for it! Help!

Q.   Hey Not sure this is realy sexual or relationship themed, but i think ultimately it does relate. Am going through a bit of a confusing time at the moment. I live in a large shared house, we are all students, about 9 lads all known each ot...

A.   8 September 2008: Hey maybe u just need to get out more and meet new people its gd to be selfless but its also gd to be selfish. u may think about what other people think cuz u dont wanna think about wot u think say like u may not like the answers u come up with so u ... (read in full...)

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