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writes:I'm in a really horrible situation, and really need advice as to how i can get back at this guy. I met a guy called Paul about a month ago and we ended up flirting. He was wearing a wedding ring and I brought it up and he said he was seperating from his wife and was wearing the ring until the divorce came through - for some stupid reason I beleived it and started a relationship with the guy. We went all over the country, had sex, and I really started to like him. About two weeks ago I started to get suspicious - I wasnt allowed to give him love bites, and we could never stay at his house, we stayed at other houses. He only was nice to me during sex, and afterwards he would just close down, be rude and act as if I wasn't there. So I confided this all in a friend who I trusted who knew Paul through toher peopel and he went away and did research. Nothing coudl have prepared me for what I found out, but basically, he's not seperting from his wife - thye are still together, she just lives in a different country, and not only this but he was using the same line on another woman - a friend of Mine! My friend didn't know anything about me and I didnt know anything about her, but now we do, as the friend who I asked to look in to things told us both. My friend and i have spoken and we are fuming at this guy. He was telling us the same story, and there were even times where one night he slept with her, and the next night he slept with me. We are just both so angry. He even told us both the same story about being seperated from the wife. By chance we are all going to be in the same hotel next week. That's the other thing, the arrogance of the man to think he could cheat on me, not only that, but hceat on me with a friend!! Anyways, all gonig to be in the same hotel together, and my friend and i want to get back at him. He has humiluated us both and we need ideas. We were thinking of luring him to our hotel room for a threesome and then locking him out the room naked.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (18 June 2008):
 Get revenge? For what? You slept with a guy you KNEW was married. Even if you swallowed that line of him wearing the ring until the divorce was final you STILL went with him knowing he was still married.
Don't blame him for being a dumb slut. If you try to get revenge it will most likely backfire because he is smarter then the both of you.
"That's the other thing, the arrogance of the man to THINK he COULD cheat on me, not only that, but cheat on me with a friend!"
Wrong he KNEW he could cheat on you and DID. He played you and you fell for it with open eyes.
Say you did what you planned to do. Wouldn't change the fact that he still played you two for the fools you are but also might open you up to legal troubles. Anyway, so what if he is outside naked, who cares? Potential of a threesome is worth the risk to any man.
Oh you could make a video like smiles said but she most likely knows he has affairs and doesn't care for whatever reason and of course you would first have to give a him a threesome to get the video.
Basically, swallow your pride and try to learn a lesson.
If I don't sound sympathetic that is because I am not. Mostly I am going "nice move dude!". Even when you know it is wrong you gotta admire it when somebody does it with such skill.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): I agree with Tisha. Your plan will likely backfire on you. Just make it known what an arsehole he is, so that everyone knows to stay away from him. The story will eventually get back to his wife and you can watch it play out to get your revenge.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (18 June 2008):
 OOOOH, this one is too tempting not to comment on. I don't think that I can come up with a better revenge strategy, only to add that you could write in indelible marker on his back 'I cheat on my wife!' before locking him out of the hotel room.
I have to caution you though that sometimes things can backfire badly on you. If you work with him, he could get you fired. He could seek revenge on you in return. It might be a good idea to work through all the possible ramifications of your wonderfully delicious evil plan.
Maybe just telling people that he IS married and is lying when he says otherwise would be enough?
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (18 June 2008):
 He was wearing a wedding ring and so smooth that he managed to talk you into sex??? Damn he must be good.. must have had a lot of practise. Do the 3-some thing, or even tie him to a bed then leave him there, naked!! Oh and dont forget to take his clothes and wallet too! Hope you both had protected sex because it sounds like he really gets around!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): vow, what a ....!
Take a video and forward it to the wife in the other country. She will probably know how to deal with him.
Next time be more carefull, if he wears a ring!
Good luck.
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