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How do I impress him? Why did he stop flirting with me? And what do boys look for in a girl?

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Question - (8 January 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, *he unknown writes:

i am 15 and I like this boy. he is smart intelligent and cute. he isnt a boy people would put me with but there is something about him.

However, he has had this girl he likes in my friendship group for a few years and i think he still does. He gives off the sense that he likes one of my friends in my group, who he has liked for years and she has admitted she never would get with him.

This boy and I are quite close, and he used to be quite flirty with me at one point, which he started, but stopped (for a reason i dont know) i really wnat to get with him and i need to some how impress him but i dont know how.

firstly how do i impress him without going over the top?

Also the boy i like is someone no one would guess id like! he is someone who doesn't really have much experience in the dating area.

i really like him and i want to impress him.

how do i impress him ?

secondly, why did he stop flirting with me?

thirdly, what do boys look for in girls?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (8 January 2012):

Honeypie agony auntI agree, be who you are. That will impress people you meet in your life FAR more then pretending to be someone you are not.

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A male reader, MrMcLovin United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2012):


The question what do girls/boys look for in a boy/girl is a massive cliche. It's asked my everybody and, to be brutally honest, there is no one answer that will be definite for everyone. Don't try and change for a boy. I'm a guy and I personally like a girl who can take banter and have a laugh but that might be TOTALLY different to your guy.

You mentioned he doesn't have much experience. Well there is your answer for why he has stopped flirting. He is just as confused as you and probably thinks you don't like him.

Don't try and impress him by buying him stuff or whatever, talking to him and being honest is the best gift you could ever give him.


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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland + , writes (8 January 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntI understand that you really like him, but there really is nothing you can do to change how he thinks or feels about you. I am not sure why he stopped flirting with you, maybe he just felt that he was not getting any where so he decided to move on to someone else, or maybe he is the type of guy that gets bored easily. Guys usually like confidence in a girl, so if you like him well then show him. Flirt with him and sit close to him when you are talking. There really is no way to impress him, either he likes you or he doesn't so just bite the bullet and find out more.

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