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writes:Hey, okay so my dad is a douche bag, this is the story.I just moved in with my dad in December, and i've been alright, then he started calling me a liar, and he just never lets me do anything, i have been thinking it's because of my step mom who uses him for money and i think he started realizing it but he's craving love. Anyway, he's a dickhead, sorry, but i was at a friends yesterday, and then i called and he said i could sleepover, the next day he told me to be home at 4:00, i was in another town like 10 minutes away or less, and my phone died and i was climbing a mountain, or something like that with my boyfriend, my 2 friends and their boyfriends and my phone died at 3:30. My dad told me he called me at 5 sometime and my phone was dead but he said i answered which is very unpredictable if my phone is off ya know? So then we got to the top, chilled, came back down which it took a long time to get up and down, when i got down i washed up, and texted him and told him but instead i told him i went to the mall with my friend and her mom, but then he flips, kicks me out of the house, i can't go back in the house to get anything at all, not even my clothes, so i am stuck at my friends house. I have to move back to my mom's house in another town an hour away. I told my dad i didn't need a phone, or anything i just wanted him to show he at least cared about me somewhat, he failed.There are alot of thing he has done before, but i try to hide all my feelings so i said whatever, i don't care, and my boyfriend doesn't know what he is going to do without me. I could explain this much more, but i don't know what to do, all i get is called a liar, and it's like i'm nothing to anyone.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 May 2009):
So he said you had to be home by 4pm, and you made no effort to do that and climbed a mountain instead, knowing it would take you all day?
Well it's no wonder he's angry with you.
Yes he over reacted but you have to admit some fault here rather than saying he must not care about you. If he didn't care then he wouldn't be setting these rules and boundaries.
Rather than blaming him for being a dick, and his girlfriend for whatever it is you are accusing her of... why not look at how you act around him.
Go and say you are sorry for lying and not being in on time. Tell him you love him and want to live with him and you will follow all the rules from now on.
Help around the house and be NICE to him and his girlfriend. Spend some time with him rather than just your friends and boyfriend.
Put some effort in and see what happens.
Good Luck!! xx
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