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writes:My brother's wife and I have history, we both have moved on since she married my brother but the only problem is deep down i still fancy her and deep down in her heart i know she feels the same.But she will not admit it to herself.We only see each other at the weekends on a family get togethers and quite ironically we both catch each other staring at one another, and then for her to stare away with a cheeky smile.The other day she gave me a cheeky cuddle and touched my bum with intent, so now im confused? HELP Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2012): I'll un- confuse you..You should never betray your brother. You sound quite smitten almost like a school boy....remember what you feel for her WILL FADE,but to betray your own brother will never fade and that is taking his feelings into account too.UNFORTUNATLY you have the secret knowledge that your brother has possibly married a woman quite happy to betray him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 March 2012):
 “deep down in her heart I know she feels the same” NO YOU DON’T.
YOU HOPE she feels the same. BUT why? Just because she gave you a “cheeky hug” (whatever that means I’m not sure) and touched your bum does not mean she fancies you. Please. If every guy I hugged or smacked on the butt who I was in some way related to or close to thought I fancied him I’d have a freaking football team.
As everyone else has said there is NOTHING you are to do or say about this… YOU LET IT GO.
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (2 March 2012):
Stay well away - Is it really worth losing a brother and family members for a woman you desire? Because that is what will happen!
Find a lady of your own - please don't do this to your brother! Look at it another way, how would you feel if it was happening to you? It would kill you inside to think that your OWN brother had betrayed you!
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (2 March 2012):
 Oh dear!!! 'Can of worms alert!!!'
You could blow the lid off it and start having an affair with her and see where that gets you...family fights. mistrust, jealousy, your family disowning you etc
or you could do the right thing (and it is the right thing) to walk away, leave well alone and accept that this is one complete nightmare that you must avoid at all costs.
She is in the wrong as well and she needs to keep her hands off you and she can do that if you arn't there.
Move on and find a girl of your own.
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (2 March 2012):
 HELP?!!?!?
STAY....AWAY!!
Why risk relations with your brother and his relations with his wife just so you can get off. It's not worth it. Stay away from her, get yourself a decent gal and move on
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