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writes:okay my boyfriend just broke up with me two days ago, he broke up with me three weeks ago because he wanted to find himself and needed his alone time i guess but it didnt last that long before he wanted me back cuz he regretted it immediatley and missed me, but it all started on Thanksgiving when he heard a rumor that i messed around with someone else while we were taking a break which i wasnt and i didnt hear from him at all the next day and when he texted me on Saturday he said he was busy hanging out with his friend all day friday since it was his friends last day back before going to college, but the next few days he was acting weird he was being short with his texts or just not responding back or just not talking to me. i finally asked him what was going on, and he told me he couldnt do this relationship anymore he felt like i was smothering him by saying i love you too much and things were different between us and he just didnt feel the same way about me like he used to and he just wanted to be free again. hes never been in a relationship this long before, he probably couldnt handle it. and he deactivated his facebook the day we broke up which caused me to ask him what was up, and than we ended up breaking up. a couple days later he re activated it again he deleted and blocked me, and i gave him no reason to hate me. and he deleted my family. and now its deactivated again. how could he be over a seven month relationship so quickly especailly since before me he didnt have a girlfriend in three years, and im his first long relationship.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (9 December 2012):
What makes you think he’s over you? If he’s cutting contact it’s probably because he knows the relationship isn’t going to work and thinks it’s best to move on. If he kept up contact with you wouldn’t you just have false hope that there’s a chance for you both? It sounds like you were incompatible and he has realised this. Tough as it is, it sounds like you need to do the same. He’s probably upset and disappointed to, but if he knows it’s over he’s doing the right thing by keeping his distance. That’s not easy to do on sites like Facebook without either deactivating the account or blocking you.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, Ilha  +, writes (9 December 2012):
hi dear,
I do not know what he is thinking but maybe he wants to move on and seeing all the pics make it harder for him. it is hard to let go i know but you have to concentrate on getting over him. It will take time but you will come out as a stronger person. I have been in such situation and understand what you are going through. Instead of using the energy to focus on his actions, focus it on yourself cause you are worth it. There is no point being angry and confused with him and his actions. take care
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (8 December 2012):
 Who said he is over you? There is nothing in that post to suggest that he is, he deleted you and your family because your relationship is over and he wants to move forward so in order to do that the best way is that there is no contact between the both of you. I know that this is difficult and 7 months probably feels a life time to you right now but you will get over it and move forward. No contact with him is the best way forward and you will feel better in time.
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