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reader, bub86  +, writes (16 October 2015):
Besides what every one else has said to you, this shows an incredible amount of disrespect for her by you and you do it only to edify yourself for the thrill of it. How would you exploit her if it offered you a greater thrill? Where would you stop? What else would you do?
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reader, Abella +, writes (26 September 2015):
 Well Done Athz
You have done the right thing to stop this
Regards
Abella
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reader, Athz  +, writes (26 September 2015):
Athz is verified as being by the original poster of the question I know I have done wrong... I'll go cold turkey now.. Stop this once and for all.. I love her truly. I cant tell her that I've done this but I promise myself that I'll not do it again.. Its gross.. Thank you for your help.. ?
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reader, Abella +, writes (26 September 2015):
Here is the test for any unacceptable action on your part - how would you feel if you full name and address and a photo of you appeared on the front page of a newspaper your parents read - and which her parents read - if the accompanying story detailed what you have been doing with your girlfriend's photos?
Shame
Shock horror?
It's not a nice thought is it?
If something would hurt and embarass you if the above occurred then do not do it.
You also should know that once a photo is shared on the internet it can end up anywhere and then be shared again. And again and again. Millions of times. It can end up in jails, being stared at by criminals and sick individuals.
It can end up in all manner of places to be used by men you would never want anywhere near your girlfriend.
You have a cruel exploititive attitude to your girlfriend. Please get some confidential psychological counselling.
I cannot imagine how you ever thought thiss could ever be acceptable to any woman you dated.
It demonstrates immaturity too. You are not ready to date a girl.
You are not protecting her, cherishing her nor valuing her as dear and precious to you while you exploit her image.
Go cold turkey. Stop using these images for your own personal ego and for boosting your perceived image as a man.
Real men do not exploit the woman they love.
Real men protect their beloved from harm.
Real men do not abuse their woman.
You are abusing the trust of the lady who has thought you cared.
Destroy the photos. Never ask for more. Remove what photos you have on your hard drive or on any USB stick or similar.
Because right now you know your judgement is compromised when it comes to this type of photo.
Go volunteer amongst some seriously underpriveleged people in your community. Ask to do the jobs no one else wants to do as your pennance and do so voluntarily, willingly and cheerfully as an unpaid volunteer.
You need to turn your life around and stop being so thoughtless and unkind.
what you have done to your girlfriend is so nasty and unkind and it is wrong in so many ways.
Exploiting, in this manner, the trust of a woman who is your girlfriend (and who you claim to love) you is completely inacceptable
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2015): whoa you should stop right away and if you could you should delete the pics from internet, i mean if she finds out she'll really mad and ashamed, do you really want every guy on earth see your gf nude body? if you want then you have serious problem.
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (26 September 2015):
 you are sexually exploiting her through pornography.The end doesn't justify the means because you cut her head off the photo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2015): She shares private things about herself with you; because she trusts you. She defies her family values and religious beliefs to please you. You have betrayed her trust for the sake of cheap thrills. You feel guilty about it. So you came to this site.
You are exploiting your girlfriend. What you are doing is criminal. Cutting off her head in the shots makes no difference. If they know you, they know who she may be.
If you really care for her. Please stop. There will be karma.
So don't do that if you love your girlfriend.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (26 September 2015):
 uhhhhhhh tell your girlfriend about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2015): Does she know you're doing this? Why don't you ask her and see what she feels about it?
It's not only wrong, but it's a massive breach of trust. She trusted you, and sent those photos which were for your eyes only - not to share with some random dudes. Doesn't this fall under creating pornography? What you're doing is bad for both of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2015): Posting nude photos of anyone, cropped or not, without their expressed consent is wrong.
By your logic, it would be perfectly acceptable to allow random strangers to gang rape your girlfriend while you masturbated as long as you put a bag over her head so nobody would know who she is.
If you get aroused by pimping out nude pictures of your girlfriend to use as jerk-off fodder then you can't possibly love her. A true man would never treat a woman so disrespectfully and contemptuously.
Let this be a warning to everyone reading this post: NEVER share intimate photos with a boyfriend/girlfriend unless you're prepared to share them with the world in perpetuity; you can never know what kind of creep you've wound up with until it's too late.
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reader, cynthia does wonder +, writes (26 September 2015):
You need to stop it... sending her pictures like that without her permission is a disgrace ... if you truly love her stop ... you can't possibly respect her and do this... I also urge you to tell her what you did...who knows she May even like the thought of it...and give you permission to do that. But never do anything like that w/o somebodies permission.. your horrible
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