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writes:I've been without my ex girlfriend for a week and a half now, and I'm missing her. She broke up with me after trying to rekindle our spark for about a month. It felt very pressured for us both during that time, and although we had alot of fun, the spark didn't come back. We'd been together for about 4 years, and had a lot of ups and downs, we argued a lot, we saw each other a lot but we also had a lot of special moments like weekends away and holidays together. We also both lost family members last year which I don't think helped.So, I want to ask her out for a meal one night, but I'm wondering if it's too early? Should I give her more time to *hopefully* miss me? Or if I leave it too long will she just get over me.... We haven't spoken other then when she messaged me 3-4 days ago, asking how I was and stuff. I asked if she still thinks she made the right decision, to which she said at the moment, she does.Any help, guidance would be appreciated...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): yeah,give her time..and if she really wants to get back with you she'll wait..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): Hi Hunny
Give it a little more time, text her to see how she is and to see what her reaction is aswell, Loosing someone close can put alot of pressure on people as you no, Plus you go through so many emotions when your grieving hunny that it can cause certain pressure on a relationship.. I lost 2 friends 2006 and it was a horrible time for along time I didnt know my arse from my elbow...Keep maybe phoning now and then to find out how she is without any pressure then build up to asking her for a meal and a chat love I hope it all works out for you, in the mean time figure out what the arguments were all about and try and think of a way you could stop that from happening if you two do get back that would help you situation alot hunny TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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