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writes:my boyfriend said last night that he has gave up on are relationship, due to me being jealous and always saying he's cheating.i suffer from depression how can i save my relationship.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (1 November 2007):
 Hello.
You should not be thinking about your relationship at this time, the main thing to do is put all your thought into your self and try to over come your depression or at least get it under control, then you will be able to see and think more clearly, then you can start to look for a more suitable relationship, because your partners does not consider your position, concerning your health then maybe you are better off without him, he has no consideration for you and your health problem, and this is the biggest fight in your life, do not despair eventually when you gain better control over yourself then everything will become clear to you.
hope this will help you.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (1 November 2007):
 First off I must ask can you forgive this guy is all he does is cheat on you. And secondly do you think he will stop if you get the help you need?
Depression is a hard thing to deal with- not only from the person with its point of view, but everybody in their life. I was a manic depressive a few years back and it deeply affected everybody around me, especially when it came to my insecurities. I was petrified constantly that my partner would cheat, or hurt me in some way. It got to the point I was checking his phone, emails etc. It was driving me round the bend.
I knew I had to get help and I did. I went to speak to someone and she helped me a great deal. It doesn't always work out this way for everyone. I was lucky to find someone who I could talk to very quickly and openly that could help. Sometimes it takes people a long time to find that. But it can help just to talk to someone who isn't a family member or a mate.
I know you are going to say you love this guy, but you need to sort YOU out first. I don't blame you at all for being jealous and insecure especially since the guy has admitted to cheating on you. Take yourself a long to your doctor and have a chat with them. There may be tablets that can help with your moods and they can also give you some information on some people to go and speak to and get some help.
Once you are getting yourself on the mend you can then think about the relationship with this guy.
Hope this helps :)
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