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writes:So I've started talking to a guy *dave* that I used to have a fling with in the past. But my best friend *anne* has started texting him also. But only because he texts her when him and I get into arguments. He asks what he should do and what not. *anne* has a boyfriend of 1 year and is a very flirty person. I know that she means no harm when she texts *dave* but it still makes me jealous to know that she texts him. How can I kindly tell her to stop?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2012): You can't tell her not to text him, yoou need to talk to him about how it makes you feel when he runs to her because you and he have an arguement. Honestly if you are only talking to him and you are not in a relationship with him, it is going to seem extremely clingy and controlling to talk to her about them texting one another. I suggest that you talk to him telling you that you do not feel comfortable with him talking to her about your arguements, that you feel it would be better if he talks to you in regards to it, so you can work it out together. I understand you feel jealous about this, so talk to him not her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012): Its really something you need to tell him, not to keep running to her when you two fall out. Obviously she's going to text him back if he initiates contact, but whatever issues you two are having only you two can sort them out, not you, him and your friend.
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