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I don't know how to tell her that I like her?

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Question - (6 August 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

About six months ago i met a girl in a club. We clicked instantly and had a great time together. Unfortunately she had a boyfriend, so i didnt make a move on her (that was the only thing holding me back). We still spoke to each other on and off after that, and then her boyfriend cheated on her. I thought she would leave him and i could be with her, but instead she forgave him and went back to him. I didnt see her for a while after that, but we still spoke. Im going to be seeing her next week at a club for a 22nd birthday party. I really want to tell her how i feel (i havent actually said "i like you" or whatever but i think we both sensed there was something there) but dont know how. Any advice? I realise she already has a boyfriend, but like i said we clicked straight away, and he did cheat on her. I just dont know how to tell her.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (6 August 2012):

DoubleM agony auntIn my opinion, you usually don't have to tell someone that you "like" them until you are involved.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (6 August 2012):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou could tell her that you'd love it if she looked you up the next time she single again. But you better be prepared for her reaction, which may not be very favorable.

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A female reader, Just Gill United Kingdom +, writes (6 August 2012):

Just Gill agony auntYou need a little more believe in yourself. You need to ask yourself- can i still be her friend if she says no?

If the answer to this is yes then i would recommend you take her aside somewhere quiet. give her your pressent at this point, make it something special. Then tell her how you feel. Dont be to full on, and make sure she is sobber! You need to deside whats best to say to her, make it come from the heart. I would recommend you keep the boyfriend out of tyhis as you dont want her to think about him. If she brings him in the conversation then dont slander him as remember she is still dating this man.

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