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Follow up: In college and pregnant - am I overreacting to my doctor's remarks?

Q.   I'm a 21 year old college student about to graduate with my biology degree and i've just found out i am pregnant. I posted a few days ago about how i didn't know if i wanted an abortion or not and i am still undecided. Well the plot has thickene...

A.   10 March 2009: thank you all for your advice! it helped a lot just to vent and write that all down. his tone was definitely a little too judgemental for my liking but at the same time he's a great doctor and i've been with him for a while so i will probably just ... (read in full...)

Should I keep on dating my teacher?

Q.   I meet this guy as my teacher in highschool for one of my classes. Things started out simple enough where he was the teacher and i was the student, nothing more than that. but soon causal flirting from both of us started taking place, yet nothing ...

A.   5 September 2008: I don't think there is anything wrong with it. He showed great respect for you and you showed respect for yourself by waiting until you were graduated to pursue anything. If you're happy, then be happy! Who cares what others think. ... (read in full...)

When he dumped me, I had realized how mean I was to him and wanted to change, but it was too late. What can I do to get him back?

Q.   I wonder if someone can help me. Me and my boyfriend had been together for just about 10 months. We had a lot of big things happen to us, that I think kept us stronger in the beggining of the relationship. He had totaled my car, and I also got...

A.   5 September 2008: The way you described your actions and feelings is exactly how I would describe how I've acted and felt. I'm in the same situation. I was mean, psychotic and all of the above to a great man and then he left me and I felt the same way you do. I know ... (read in full...)

How can I convince my boyfriend to have sex with me while I'm on my period?

Q.   My sex drive seems to be at its highest when I have my period, but my boyfriend isn't keen on the idea of sex then because he doesn't like blood. I have never tried having sex on my period. Is it commonly done? What are people's views on it? I don't ...

A.   5 September 2008: You should try it in the shower. No mess and you can wash each other when your done =)... (read in full...)

How do I learn to trust and regain my self esteem?

Q.   Hi everyone. I am seeking some advice on how to get beyond the things that have happened to my marriage and my self esteem. My husband of six years (together for 10) cheated on me with an 18 year old girl. He actually left the kids and I for about ...

A.   30 June 2008: You poor thing. I am so sorry this has happened to you. I can see the effect your husband has had on you just in the way you've asked your question. Do you really have to ask: "she approached us at a public event and tried to hug and kiss on my hu... (read in full...)

Has moving to another country destroyed my relationship?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years now. I moved to Europe so that we can stay together. But since moving here our relationship has been falling apart. We have spent a lot more time together since moving (Since neither one of us friends ...

A.   30 June 2008: your question is very vague. can you please provide more details as to what kind of disagreements your having? i don't know if your arugeing about wallpaper or about having kids.... (read in full...)

He seems to detach better than I do when he wants space. Am I unhealthy for not being able to do this?

Q.   This is rather embarassing 'cos I know I'm WRONG and UNHEALTHY! Me and my BF have been together for a year and 8 months. Lately I've been sensing he wants more space or something. Yet I can't detach the way he seems to. He's the most important p...

A.   25 April 2008: i agree with both datingshoes and happytochat. i'm a 20 year old girl in a 1 year relationship and i have many of the same feelings as you do. i've never had "best friends", lots of good friends but never in one circle i guess whereas my boyfriend ... (read in full...)

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