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writes:I've just broke up with my girlfriend after over a year of going out.I said that i wasn't ready for a serious relationship and that my feelings had changed for her.I knew it was going to be hard but i feel really bad and i know she's really upset. She's texted me begging me to get back with her and i feel really bad.I don't know what to do. It seemed like the right idea at the time but now i feel horrible.What am i supposed to do?
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (3 December 2008):
if you love her get her back,tell her you are sorry for what you did and work things out things from there.
if you don't and only feel pity let her go she will get over you and meet someone who loves her
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 December 2008):
If you don't want to be with her then don't be.
If you want to be single then go off and be single.
Don't lead her on by thinking there is a chance. Yes she is hurt but sometimes that is what happens.
Text her back and say you are really sorry for hurting her but you can't be with her. Then go off and when she is ready to be friends again she'll get in touch.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Canary611  +, writes (3 December 2008):
I think you seem a little comfused and she must be too. if you were with her for over a year then you were to some extent already in a more or less serious relationship. If the only reason you're asking if you did the right thing or not is because you feel bad for huting her, then you did do the right thing. But if there are other reasons behind it, maybe you should reconsider. Never give up on someone you can't go a day without thinking about.
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reader, vikkicutie +, writes (3 December 2008):
 Do you still love or still have strong feelings for your ex girlfriend? you need to get together and sit down and talk about how you feel and what you want for the long run. i think if you wernt ready for a long term relationship then you wouldnt have stayed with her for a year! are you scared to be committed with someone else? you need to think about everything before you start to give your ex girlfriend mixed signals! i have been where your ex is and it sucksd that my ex gave me mixed signals, thinking we were getting back together then he broke my heart. make sure it doesnt end that way for you two!good luck hope ive helped! xxx
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