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He's taken so I told him so I wouldn't see him. anymore..because I had strong feelings for him. Now all he does is text me constantly and flirts with me! What's going on here?

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Question - (30 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2007)
A female Isle of Man age 30-35, *ubbloo24 writes:

I fancy this guy who's taken.

So that I didn't mess up anything for him and his girl, I told him that I had feelings stronger than friendship for him and therefore I couldn't see him for a while until these feelings had gone ( which I thought was the right thing to do) He said that he didn't feel the same but he would love to stay friends.

Why is it then that he doesn't stop texting me saying " I want to see you" and when we did see each other after about 3 weeks, he was flirting with me, hugging me, tickling me and basically didn't stop touching me.

He kept saying " you're so pretty, I love your smile" and all this. And when I said " why didn't your girlfriend come down to see me?" ( coz we're all mates ) he said "does it matter?"

Confused :S

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2007):

flower girl agony auntSounds like he want's to have his cake and eat it, if you like him tell him the only way you can see him again is if he ends things with his current girlfriend, if he is not prepared to do that then i would walk away and not look back. xx.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (30 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntIt sounds like he was looking for action on the side... I would tell her immediately.

DV1

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