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writes:i honestly dont know how to get over him. Hello everyone! i have a big problem, i went out with this boy bla bla bla and he told me hed never hurt me ans this other shit. Like a fool i believed him, well he found someone else just after being broken up with me for 3 days. She wore his jacket, the thing i wore for i dunno mabey a month! im so depressed, i have guys that would date me and stuff so im not ugly by any means. i just dont know how to leave my first love! he meant everything to me and i fall in love way to fast, i gave him my heart and he gave me hell. how do i cope with the fact that he dosent want me anymore='(xox thank you
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reader, Miss C  + ♥, writes (7 October 2007):
 I know how it feels aswell. I dated my boyfriend for 11 months and then out of the blue he told me he wanted to be single and that it just wasn't working so we decided on a break. He said he didn't know if he loved me then the next day he said he didn't then the next he said he did but just not as much. Eventually he broke up with me and says he's already moved on and flirts with so many girls. I knwo how you feel with the jacket thing too. My boyfriend gave me his hoody and I still have it but refuse to wear it. Initially i was in agony because the heartbreak was too much to bear and I all I did for 3 days was cry and cry and cry. Now I realise how badly he has treated me but I refuse to sink to his level and want to maitain keeping my dignity evn though he has destroyed some of my confidence. He stll refers to me as his best friend even though he ignroes me in school and unfortunately becasue I sit with him in one of my classes at school, he uses this opportunity to flirt with me. If your ex is anything like this then trust ne it's hard. My boyfriend and I broke up 5 days ago and my mood is all over the place but I;m starting to realise that I deserve so much better. All his promises of a future together and of loving me more than I loved him was a lie. Whatever you do, don't resort to his level, be civilised and people will see for themselves what a prat he has been. It will take a long time to overcome the hurt but would you rather be with someone who has broken your heart and is likely to do it again? At first I was so depresssed it made me feel physically sick to the stomach but with the support of my friends and my mum, I'm finding it easier. Trust me, you will too honey. I'm really sorry becasue I know how painful this experience is but persevere. I wish you luck and email me any time if you want to talk about it more. Miss C xx
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reader, Ask_HanBan +, writes (4 October 2007):
 hey,
i'm in the same boat as u at this moment in time.
it hurts doesnt it? like this big pang in your heart and everything around youi reminds you of the time you and him were together?
well dont cry and dwell about it because if he moved on then you shopuld too.
best bet is, eat chocolate, read loads of romance novels that are so unrealistic and repeat to yourself, "plenty of fish in the sea...plent of fish in the sea" untikl you get it stuk in your brain that he isnt worth it
good luk, wb and tell me how its going
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (1 October 2007):
 I know its hard, what with him being your first love, you feel like the pain is never going to go away. Well with the benefit of hindsight i can tell you that things will get better. Time heals all wounds, you have got to pick yourself up dust yourself down and move on and treat this as a chapter in your life, a memory to look back on. get out there & enjoy your young life, have a laugh with your mates, have a wild time. Sooner or later you will meet someone else, probably when you least expect it.
Hope this helps you & good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): hi dear...dont b so sad....i hve gone to a lot of hell....i know its hard today but with time evrything will b fine...just try n keep yrself busy....n never trust dis guy again....if he has dumped u once,if got a change he will dump u 100 times...go ahead...learn to smile n hide yr tears...i wish good luck for u...take care
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (1 October 2007):
You are getting way too intimate with a guy before you really get to know him. Slow down your charms girl.
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