A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone I have just found out my boyfriend of a year has been cheating on me and now I have a std I really loved him but now he has been cheating on me I know I have to break up with him how do I bring this up to him I know he has been cheating on me because I have only just been to the doctors and have been told they had caught it very early we had sex on tuesday and I started showing symptoms since saturday and I also found a womans hairbrush and some hair slides with blonde hair on his bedside cabinet how do I confront him about this I am in pieces
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (25 October 2011):
 Eww!!! what a man-skank!
I would box up all his things at your place and dump the box on his door steps with a note, you gave me an std you nasty sob! Tell your other women she needs to get tested and so do you.
After that.. I would forget all about him. Block, ingore him whatever it takes.Just WALK away.
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female
reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (25 October 2011):
 Oh honey, you're too sweet. The bastard just gave you an STD and you want to know the right way to approach him?!!! He doesn't deserve a civil or rational confrontation. If I were in your position, I'd tear him apart! Go up to him and tell him your piece of mind. No need to be kind. He could have given you God knows what and ruined your life!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 October 2011):
 hand him the doctor's statement and bill showing you have an STD... then say "so I'm not sleeping around I guess you are and she's a long haired blonde isn't she???"
then let him try to lie..... turn walk away
cry
eat ice cream
hate him till you no longer care...
sucks totally....
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reader, mooh  +, writes (24 October 2011):
you have a lot of courage ! tell him you are kicking him out of the flat and that on a side note he has a nice little STD (dont show any emotions and let him freakout) and see your friends right afterwards to help you emotionally !
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reader, frankman +, writes (24 October 2011):
simply, send him an email or text him, as a start.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 October 2011):
I'd damn well go in there and tell him straight that you knows he's cheated and that he's got a disease. Then tell him you never want to see him again and get away from him.
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