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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hello ,added this girl on facebook about 6 months ago, messaged each other every day, got her number and started flirting and chatting each other up. Eventualy i ask to meet her so we met up, at the end of the day (we only whent to town) she sat on my lap and flirtly started to grind me. I asked to meet her again and we went to a shopping centre, got her a hot chocolate and had a drink and a chill out and went shopping, again at the end of the night we had a 'moment' where we couldnt keep each our hands off each other and she grinded me again teasing me.third date she invited me to the cinema on a double date with her friend, her friend's boyfriend didnt turn up so it was me and the two girls, after the film her friend got a lift home, i had got me and my lass a lift, but purposely told my mate to be late so i could have some time with her, again couldnt keep our hands off each other and eventualy i plucked up enough courage for a kiss, i got a bit of a snog and a few little kisses then got in my mates car went home, got a kiss goodbye.so couple of days later i text her if she likes anyone n i kept getting the reply "maybe ;)" im not realy a optimist so i pushed for her to just say it was me, which she did, she said "its you dummy ;) !! xxxxx" so does she realy mean this?? or is she just playing me cos i have my doubts thanks to facebook, i do realy like her, ive just asked her to the cinema again just me and her, and i dont like the fact that she is going to a party tonight and its gunna be full of lads, now obviously if she likes me she wont do anything with them, but what if she is drunk? and shes doesnt like me that much? basicly from what you have read (as i said im not realy a optomist) does she realy like me? and is ther anything you can say to reasure me? and give some advice please? also my next question is, how do i take me and her to the next level? like we have met 3 times, we are in contact every day, and one of the 3 meetings was like kinda a date, not formaly tho. do i just keep asking her out to the cinema and to go for a drink? and when should i ask her out? to make it a proper relationship? me and her are both somewhat new to all this haha thanks :)
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (28 October 2012):
 HI
personally I don't think she will be a lasting relationship material kinda girl if that's what your after? first date (reguardless of how long you spoke prior) she was grinding on you, then the second date, she definately sounds like an easy type of girl,which would also lead me to believe she wouldn't think twice about flirting with other guys while out, and if got drunk who knows what else! Either that or she thinks that if she don't flirt with you the way she did she may loose you, again though she could be like this with any guy that shows her attention. If your looking for a long term loving trusting relationship, I doubt you are going to find this through Facebook! try going out and meeting a girl at face value and get to know her this way. Cause lets face it who wants to date someone who is that sexualy orrientated on day one?? I know I wouldn't trust someone as far as I could throw them if I were in the same boat.
Good luck
Mandy x
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