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He was too cool, but I still see his old personality

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Question - (18 November 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *abygurl81296 writes:

My ex and i broke up after a year about a month ago. Hes moved on from me but im still madly in love with him. He broke up with me because he was "too cool" for me, but I still see the old personality in him. How can i get him back? Please answer as soon as possible!

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A female reader, Babygurl81296 United States +, writes (20 November 2011):

Babygurl81296 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you everyone for all the helpful comments! I will try my best :)

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A female reader, Eyespy17 United States +, writes (18 November 2011):

Anyone who actually says they're "too cool" for someone else is actually a person of weak character with a whole lot of insecurities. Someone who is "fake" also and more concerned about image than what makes him happy.

Take that as a good thing - and take pride in being real. Don't give him the satisfaction of pining after him and letting him think you still want him.

Find someone else more deserving and give them your attention.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (18 November 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntYou can't get him back honey. YOU can't MAKE someone want you or love you.

Time to let it go and move on. I know that your heart is breaking... but this too shall pass I promise.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (18 November 2011):

Honeypie agony auntDon't waste another breath on this guy. No one is EVER too cool for another. If they think they are, they are delusional.

Let him and his over inflated ego go.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (18 November 2011):

RAINORFIRE agony auntIve broken up with a hand full of broads, Its something you think about consider and plan, so when you finally commit to it you know there's no going back. In my case i never completely burn the bridge its nice if the chick wants to at least be FWB. With practice and skill breakups can be have positive outcomes.

But there's probably nothing a girl could do to make me date her again after i spent so much time planning practically got a degree in breaking up to call it quits with her.

If a guy breaks up with you either 1) he has something better 2) he doesn't want to be with you for what ever reason your clingy, your crazy, you smell funny etc,

3)peer pressure from parents or freinds or whoever the voice in his head, or God has convinced him to end it with you. 4) all these things.

I suggest getting over this guy which you will eventually, hopefully , stop thinking about him stop daydreaming about him when ever you start thinking about him sniff a dirty sock real quick. forget he even exist find a cutter hotter stronger smarter guy.

Thats your mission if you choose to except it.

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