He threatened to hurt me, what should I do?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

sorry-it's a bit of a long story.It started 3 years sgo-me and my boyfriend had a physical fight and I had bruises,a few days after that I started seeing him in places he should'nt have been-like near my mum's when I never took him there I kept seeing the same people on the street too and the same cars driving by again and again,some of these people were his friends,others I didn't know-anyway I started being more vigilant and it turned out that I was being followed,24/7 by him and his assosiates,they were also taking it in turns to park outside my house and watch it.I could'nt think what they could possibly want but as they seemed to want me to know I was being watched I thought it was some sort of scare tactic to make sure I didn't report him-anyway,that theory got blown out of the water cos they've never stopped,even now-I thought they were mabey trying to scare me into working for them as a prostitute as my boyfriend kept dropping hints-for instance he told me there was money in prostitution and he staged some fake phone call in front of me pretending to talk to some pimp friend about the woman he was selling(this was just for my benifit though,as I couldn't hear anyone on the other end of the phone,despite the fact that I was standing quite close.)Anyway I thought they were trying to frighten me,then it would only be a matter of time before he asked me to work.I did just wonder if they could all just be some depraved bunch of weirdos that spend all their free time stalking someone cos they enjoy it,but now I think there has to be a purpose cos last night I confronted my boyfriend about it and he said if I ever brought it up again he would do me some serious damage-why would he threaten me unless he's hiding something-if he was some mental case who just liked stalking me he wouldn't bother lying about it ,would he? by the way he isn't obsessed with me-aside from when I see him following me we only see each other once every couple of weeks.what do you think is going on-I NEED to know it's too weird and it's driving me insane,please don't just say report it cos I have barely any evidence

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