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He still ignores me but I love him! Advice?

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Question - (7 April 2017) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2017)
A female India age 30-35, *rithi writes:

Actually I had a boyfriend with whom I broke up 10months ago.the reason for our breakup is he ignores me. He is not behaving as we are before the relationship. He was not at all bothered about my feelings and more over his girl best friend told him that the relationship between us is only due to attraction... And now he came to know his girl best friend is cheating at him... Now he wants me. Now we are in relationship but still he behaves the same way... He is still ignoring me.. What should I do now? I love him so much.. I can't leave him. Please suggest me...

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (10 April 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntYou can and you should leave him. He is using you to make the other girl jealous, he does not love you. Show him that you deserve to be treated better, show him and any other guy that you are worthy of someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated. Two people need to love each other for a relationship to work, and as he does not love you then it will never work.

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A female reader, Juliet94 New Zealand +, writes (8 April 2017):

You should leave him.He is not respecting your feelings.It sounds like you are the one who loves him and he doesn't loves you back.Love should be mutual.There is a possibility that he is just making use of you.Trust me,let him go.You can get a better guy who treats you well.

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom + , writes (8 April 2017):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntWhat EXACTLY are you getting out of this relationship - apart from heartache and a lowering of your self respect?

And what do you mean by "his girl best friend is cheating on him"? Either she is his GIRLFRIEND or his FRIEND - and, if she is his FRIEND, then how can she be cheating on him?

It sounds to me like you are sharing this guy with this other girl and, when she lets him down in some way, he decides you are his girlfriend, just to get back at HER.

I am totally puzzled by what your "relationship" actually consists of, given that you say he just ignores you. I am not sure what arrangement you have, but it doesn't sound like any relationship I have ever seen.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2017):

So he left you for someone else, and now wants you back because the new girl didn't quite work out the way he wanted? Ok, you need to look around for the exit; and when you find it, run, and don't look back! I too agree you're potentially being used. And since he has already shown you once what he's like, I believe your answer is there before you if you want to accept it. He left you for someone else, don't let him do it again!

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2017):

N91 agony auntYou can leave him.

He is pretty obviously just using you to Wait until something better comes along. Stop letting him treat you like crap, grow a back bone and dump him.

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