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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): If you were too young you wouldn't be wanting it. Do what YOU want. YOU get to choose what happens in YOUR life! Don't wait until you're some 44 year old fundie wishing you had done all these things when you were young. Live in excess! Gratify your desires!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): you are too young for all stuff you are still a child enjoy your childhood
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): Hey baby girl, forget all the other advice. Do what makes YOU feel good! If you want him, let him have what he needs. It is just meeting a biological need that people have. Do what you WANT. If you dont want him, shun him like a plague. If you want him go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): if your only 13 u should wait until your older and if your boyfriend really loves you he wont force you into something you dont want to do. So just tell him how you feel and he should understand.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (4 September 2007):
 Your too young for a 19 year old to be telling you are friged.
Enjoy your younger years and dont do anything you dont want until your ready. As youll regret it later.
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (4 September 2007):
 You are not frigid, you are sensible. Dont rush growing up! It happens all to soon anyway. Enjoy being young while you can. You will spend the rest of your life being an adult. nobody looks back and regrets waiting, but plenty of people look back and regret having sex too young or too soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): How dare he call you frigid!! That is a terrible thing to say to someone. He is 6 years older than you and he obviously has something very wrong with him to date someone that much younger than him, and pressure you into having sex with him. In your short email, I can tell that you are probably alot more sensible than him - so well done to you for standing up for yourself. I think you should finish seeing him completely - is this someone you realy want to be with? Someone who calls you names and pressures you into doing things you are not comfortable with? Get shot of him babes, trust me, you will be glad you did in the future. Best of luck XX
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reader, 88jane +, writes (3 September 2007):
 You are too young hunny and i am so relieved to hear you say that!! so many times people come to us and say i want to do it when they are only 13 and i have to say to them that they are too young! its so refreshing to hear a young person acknowledge and know that they are aware that it is wrong at this age! well done you!!
now in relation to this guy---i dont think you should see him anymore sweety! he is obviously only looking for one thing out of a relationship which lots of guys do at his age and it would be very wrong for him to get this from you! you wont be legally allowed to have sex until you were 16! you are still a kid at the moment and he is a grown man-this relationship isnt right! i know you like him but you would be better off not seeing him and concentrate on being a kid--if you want to start being interested in guys then look at boys your own age.
just remember---dont EVER do anything you dont feel comfortable with! you seem like a very sensible girl!!!
good luck babe! mail me if you would like to chat further
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reader, pink_fairy22 +, writes (3 September 2007):
 Hey,Trust me your way too young to be thinking about having sex. To be perfectly honest he is way too old for you, most 19 year olds will not be interested in someone whos 6 years younger. If you want to be in a relationship its best to find a guy your own age who maybe is looking for more of the same things :). You should never have to do anything your not ready to do.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (3 September 2007):
 Reading this post it struck me as very unnatural, and somewhat worrying why a 19 year old grown man would be interested in a 13 year old. It just not right, so i would terminate all contact with this guy with immediate effect. Just to put in perspective, forward your life 6 years and picture yourself as being nearly 20. Would you be interested in a 13 year old thats barely out of junior school?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): hi there go with your gut instinct you are to young, he is taking advantage of you how can he say you are frigid you are too young to even be thinking of having sex, and if you did he would be breaking the law, when you say he is a dad does that mean he has a partner already. Save yourself for someone who is worth it you are worth so much more.
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