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I'm thinking that if I don't start my sexual life soon, I'll be too scared to initiate it later on. I'm 19...
Q. I am 19 years old and never had sex, im now starting to think if I dont soon I will be too scared to have sex later on. Have you got any advice for me please?...
A. 18 September 2007: Hey,
Trust me, wait until you find someone you really care about...as i didnt and i regret it now and i was stupid as im only 17... please dont make the same mistake. I was ready to lose my virginity as i was comfortable around the guy but he wasn... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and want to have sex! I'm scared but I want to. Should I???
Q. i am 12 i want to have sex with my boyfriend. what should i do? i am so scarde but i want to, so should i have sex with him ...
A. 4 September 2007: Please wait until your older. Your body and mind have not matured enough for you to be even thinking about having sex, this shows as your so scared. You need to be 100% sure about having sex. Trust me you'll be so happy that you waited. Wait till a ... (read in full...)
Can my mother forbid me to see my older boyfriend, whom I met on msn?
Q. Hey, 6 months ago i met my boyfriend through msn and have been together 4 months now, 2 days ago he moved down to be with me. We love each other but i was wondering if my mum can stop me seeing him? im 16 and hes 27. Please give me good advice x...
A. 3 September 2007: Hey, Hmm your mum does have a right to be concerned, meeting people over the internet isnt always so good. Have you been meeting up a lot in these 6 months? If so and you have got to know him a lot face to face it may not be so bad :). I can ... (read in full...)
I have two girls on the go, I don't know which one I prefer!
Q. Hi. I am goin out with this gorgus girl for about 3 months on and off she is 14 im 16 and is prepared to go all the way with me , we have had oral sex. My mind is trubled becasue i have just relised that were live there is this fit girl hu i am hav...
A. 3 September 2007: A guy i like is going through exactly the same thing! Hes got a gf who he has been going out with about 2 months but also likes me... and hes having such a hard time to know what to do. Me being one of those girls is horrible :( as i dont know whats ... (read in full...)
He says I am frigid but I think I am too young!
Q. I am 13 and i like this 19 year old boy..he really likes me and i like him but he said i am frigid..i think i am to young and he is a dad what shall i do?? help...
A. 3 September 2007: Hey, Trust me your way too young to be thinking about having sex. To be perfectly honest he is way too old for you, most 19 year olds will not be interested in someone whos 6 years younger. If you want to be in a relationship its best to find a g... (read in full...)
I'm trying to get over my ex. Is anyone going through the same or been through it?
Q. I am trying to get over my ex-boyfriend who I have been having an affair with for 5 years. He is married and I am engaged. It has been one week since I cut off communication with him. It's really hard b/c I ve known him for 10 years dated on and ...
A. 3 September 2007: Hey, mine isnt exactly the same as that as im alot younger but i was going out with a guy for quite a few months but ended up meeting another guy...who to be honest i was totally mad a bout and had never felt that feeling before... the guy also had ... (read in full...)
He wants to wait until we're in our late 40s to have children! How can I convince him he's wrong?
Q. I'm 24, my husband's 26. Yesterday we were discussing about having children, and he said he wants to wait until we're in our late 40s - early 50s to have children. I've told him that's a bad idea, but he insists it will be better if we have kid...
A. 2 September 2007: Hey, thats a bad idea in a lot of way to wait that long really, epecially getting into your 50's. Some women begin menopause in their 50's. Also if you had children when your 50, by the time their 10 you will be 60 years old. Explain to him that you ... (read in full...)
Is going out with him the right thing to do? He's my best friend's ex...
Q. Okay, here it goes, there's a guy that I really like, I'm not entirely sure what love is, but whenever I see him he makes me smile and he just looks like an angel to me (corny as it may sound) and though I've had a few relationships, I've never felt ...
A. 2 September 2007: Hey there, Well to be begin I think you have to consider your friends feelings too as she is your best friend. Some people may not agree with this but I think friends should always come before guys. I think you need to sit down and talk to your fri... (read in full...)
Do guys care as much about weight as girls imagine them to?
Q. Do guys care as much about weight as girls imagine them to? Or do girls simply create this belief that most guys like slim girls? I'm in a fairly new relationship and i'm really happy with my boyfriend but i'm extremely insecure and am completel...
A. 2 September 2007: Hey! Dont worry! To be honest guys dont always go for skinny girls. A lot of guys like girls with curves. Everyone looks for different things in people :). He probably loves your figure and so should you, its not always healthy or good looking to be ... (read in full...)
Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex.
Q. Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex. My girlfriend said no. I don't want to pressure her but i want it sooo bad. I really love her but i don't know if i should break up with her. please help me i don't know what to do....
A. 2 September 2007: Hey, dont split up with your gf for sex, its really not worth it, a relationship is not all about sex. If you care about sex more it shows you dont love her. Sex should only take place when both people in the relationship are 100% happy and know ... (read in full...)
Why do I hear women complaining about their first times, while I felt no pain?
Q. I always thought I would bleed when I first had sex and that it would be painful...but I didnt bleed at all and there was barely any pain at all. I always imagined it to be this horrible feeling and stuff, but it didnt hurt much at all. After my ...
A. 2 September 2007: It sometimes depends on a few things especially how relaxed you are and if you do foreplay before. Some women experience a lot of pain some none at all. ... (read in full...)
I love him with all my heart but a part of me wants to try new things.
Q. I started dating my boyfriend in 6th grade. (I know that's young). We dated for 2 years and then broke up for a year and neither of us dated anyone else. when I was in 8th and him in 9th. We got back together last year and have been together for ...
A. 1 September 2007: Hey, im around the same age as you i thought exactly the same about a guy who i still care about so much now. But while i was with him i was constantly thinking about all the other guys out there i could meet. I told him that i wasnt ready for all ... (read in full...)
I'm 11 and me and my girlfriend keep breaking up. Should we be together? Help please.
Q. me and my girlfreind keep breaking up and getting back together over and over should we be together i am eleven...
A. 1 September 2007: I really wouldnt worry about any of this. Your in no rush to be in a serious relationship as your 11. You have the whole of your life ahead to meet a lot of new people. I'm 17 and i think still think that im not ready to settle down with one guy at ... (read in full...)
My 17 yr old boyfriend doesn't take me anywhere and says because I'm 15 he didn't think I would want to go anywhere. Was I right to take offense?
Q. my 17 Yr old boyfriend never takes me anywhere. earlier i confronted him about this and he said "well your only 15, i didnt think you'd want to go anywhere" i took offence by this and he stormed off to bed when i expressed this. was i right to take ...
A. 1 September 2007: Hey, I think you seriously need to sit down and talk to him and tell him what you want from the relationship. Tell him you want to spend more time with him and maybe suggest a place you would like to go. Tell him how it makes you feel that he doesn... (read in full...)
Does her starting smoking again mean she doesn't care about me anymore??
Q. I met my girlfriend in England 6 months ago and we both love each other very much! She lives in Turkey and returned 1 month ago trying to get visa to return and study. Whilst she was in England she quit smoking, she said that it was all because of ...
A. 1 September 2007: Hi, like the others have said smoking is an addiction and its only something you can stop if you really want to. You cant really stop for someone else. I don't smoke personally but a lot of my friends do they other tell themselves their going to ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and the 22 year old guy I met online wants to meet me!
Q. I met this boy over a chat room started talking but the problem is hes 22 im only 14 i know hes not an old man or anything becasue he sent me a picture with my name on i told him first that i thought he was a fake but now i know hes not. He wants ...
A. 31 August 2007: What ever you do dont meet up with him, thats the problem with talking to people online you can pretend to be whoever you want. He may seem nice to you but thats what he wants you to think, there are far too many pedophiles these days to trust ... (read in full...)
The condom kept splitting, I'm not worried, I've got no symptoms. But what do you think?
Q. Ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and frequently have sex. The condom always seems to split and we're going to go to the Doctors soon so I can get put on the pill. Because the condoms have been breaking we got worried s...
A. 31 August 2007: I think you should go to the doctors to be sure. I havent had children myself but i've heard you don't normally have any symptoms of being pregnant until maybe 2 weeks after. A condom splitting is definetely not normal and shouldnt happen as you ... (read in full...)
I don't think foundation will cover this spot on my forehead! Any tips?
Q. Above my head i felt a lump so i knew a spot was developing, so i started picking at it! And well made it a lot worse...I woke up this morning with my forehead quite swollen and hard skin where i'd been picking also its very red! I dont' know what ...
A. 31 August 2007: To be honest there isnt much to cover up a spot, but toothpaste at night which has already been said is good. Applying too much make up over the spot may agravate it even more as it will block your pores (from my own experience). But there are many ... (read in full...)
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