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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi was just wondering if anyone could maybe help or if they have any suggestions i would be very grateful thanks. ok well what it is ive just recently started a new job and one of the guys who comes in has been flirting with me e.g winking smiling trying to make any conversation he can with me noticing little things about me every time he comes in i feel as if i cant breathe if my heart will explode through my chest and every part of me becomes weak. he came in the shop the other day and told me he had been thinking about me all weekend the trouble is he came in and the shop was full so we never got a chance to talk so later on that day he came back and said i came back to speak to you because he never got a chance before although i was finished he said in front of the shop can i walk you home i just laughed because i have a boyfriend of 3years who i love to bits. as i was walking out the door he caught up with me and asked if i wamted to meet him at 6 ididnt say anything he could see i was embarassed then he said im married and he showed me his wedding ring and then said its just a bit of flirting but he noticed me before i noticed him so im really confused im not sure weather he likes me or weather he's just trying to have his cake and eat it but its churning me up inside and all i can think of is him even though i have and love my partner. anyone got any advice or help i would be very grateful thank you
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (19 April 2009):
 You both have partners now it is up to you and you alone what to do here.
I don't see how you can love your boyfriend if you are seriously thinking about having an affair with a married man! I understand all girls have their fantasies and crushes but to actually really think about this isn't conducive to a loving relationship with your boyfriend!
Also he is MARRIED, and sounds like either the office flirt or a player either way you should watch your back as he certainly won't leave his wife for you and even if he did, do you think he'll remain faithful?
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reader, Miss Tj +, writes (19 April 2009):
Everyone loves a little bit of flirting and there is no harm in it unless it messes with your head which it clearly is.The thing you need to realise is you love your boyfriend and it is just a bit of harmless fun with your colleague.Aslong as you make sure the flirting goes no further because you don't want to cheat on your boyfriend and end up losing everything.Maybe speak to your colleague about this situation and see what he feels, just try to prevent your emotions because if you end up falling for him and find out he doesn't feel the same, then I'm afraid you're in a sticky situation.
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