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writes:I am 15 and i went out with this guy for a couple of months he seemed really sweet and always was there for me giving me hugs and trying to to make me smile.I was going through a rough time i was having family problems at this point and had police around all the time and was been sorted out as i had an internet pedo stalking me and trying to talk to me and saying inoproperout things. I seemed to be crying a lot and we were good mates before we got together so i knew i could trust him not to do out like that or hurt me.It was going great he stood by me day and night if i called him in the night because i couldnt sleep and had nighmares at this point he`d pick up no matter what time it was. We were doing great mine and his mates were always around me to.A few weeks past and he changed he became distant and wouldnt really talk to me he rang me and texted me saying he missed me i meant loads to im he`ll always be here and never leave me but deep down i couldnt help think something was wrong.Then a while after that i meet him at the school gates and i went to hug him and he pushed me away and said he didn`t want to be with me anymore. I cried on my mate after tat. However the night before he said he missed me and had feelings for me and would never let me go.On the night i rang him saying i didnt understand why he gave me false messages and what i did wrong. He said his mum wanted him to finish with me and i was a bad influence and he had to get on wit his exams. Well i do study i get c`s b`s and sometimes a`s and a*`s and always try my best in school. I asked if i could get back with im he said no but he`ll always be here and we`ll be freinds and i agreed.Miss ended uo sitting us together in science and i try and talk to him but he just looks away and sometimes stairs at me though however i sometimes get dirty looks. I asked my best mate was it my fault did i do somethig wrong she said no i didnt and it wasnt he just coudnt deal with been there for someone and been in a relationship.Its been a couple of months since that but i still miss him been around he pulled me up from rock bottom. What shall i do? Was it my fault was he using me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe dont talk anymore and he doesnt seem to no i exsist i have decide to let it go and get on with my life and let him get on with his
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou so much for your advice and help.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (8 July 2012):
 His mother may have been concerned his being there for you at all hours of the night meant he was missing out on much needed sleep which would have been affecting his schoolwork.
Also, the events happening in your life, with family problems, and police visits, and a stalker and your crying all the time may all have become too much for him to deal with third hand.
From what you say I don't think he was using you, I think that he was good friend to you when you needed him to be, now you just have to accept he has pulled back a bit and that stage of your friendship is past.
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