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He mistreated me badly and I'm scared of him! How do I deal with this?

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Question - (1 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been with this guy for four years, we both are 19. A few days ago I was visiting him at college, and I accused him of cheating on me, because hes done it before, but he yelled at me and told me to get out of his house. He dragged me and pushed me downstairs, smashed my phone because i would listen to him and slammed me against a wall. hes never done this to me before and I dont know what to do. hes suppose to be my best friend, but now im scared of him. any advice?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2010):

You need to leave him. He's just not a good guy. He's cheated, and now he's hurt you. Tell someone else that you're leaving him, have someone there when you tell him it's over and just get away from him. You don't want to end up dead.

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (1 February 2010):

Griffo agony auntNever speak to him ever again. Get all your stuff, don't say a thing and leave. But Let him know that if he comes near you, or tries to do it again you will report him to the police. Thats all you need to say. You may want to send that as a message or better, get a friend to tell him, that way you have a witness who knows about his threatening behaviour toward you.

What a dick head!

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