I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 4 October 2008: Diovan, I appreciate the apology. The situation is still painful for me!
This has always gone on in our relationship unfortunately, even at the beginning he was telling lies and hiding stuff. He was never good with the sex issue and, believe ... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 2 October 2008: Thanks Devon for your needlessly insulting post. I have no problems with porn. What I do have a problem with is the lies and deceit I have faced for the last four years with this man. I DID try to introduce porn into the bedroom to improve our sex ... (read in full...)
Bad relationship, violence included - I'm left feeling unwanted and with no self-confidence. I want to feel happy with myself!
Q. I am 17 next month, and will be single for a year, I was in a relationship for 2 years in which i was badly treated that included violence from my ex partner. I still think about this alot and feel that my self confidence has gone down alot because ...
A. 12 June 2008: Hey darlin, i really feel for you as i was in exactly your position at your age. I dated a guy from 16-17 who used to beat me up and drag me down all the time. I will assume, like most abusers, that your boyfriend really went to town on your sel... (read in full...)
Children too soon or too late?
Q. My husband and I have only been married since March, and already he wants to have children, it is all he talks about. I realize that since there is such a huge age difference between us (he's 34, I'm 42), the biological clock is ticking and I need ...
A. 11 June 2008: I wouldn't worry. Many women these days are having children later in life and many find that their maturity is a massive bonus in raising a family. You are probably more financially and emotionally stable than many people who rush into family life ... (read in full...)
Where can a teenage girl who likes porn get it for free?
Q. i know that im gonna get alot of smart answers to this.. But im a 16 year old girl, and i'd like to try masturbating to porn.. are there any good free sites? apart from redtube?...
A. 11 June 2008: Youporn and hotgoo are really good. Both are free and totally safe
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Question for people who have broken up and then gotten back together with their significant others...
Q. Question for those that have broken up and gotten back together with their significant others: How long after the breakup did either you or your partner try to get back together with you? Or even if you didnt get back together, but either one o...
A. 11 June 2008: It really depends upon what has happened to break you up in the first place and whether you want to get back together. For many people moving on is difficult, especially when they still have feelings for their ex and for many of those people moving ... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 7 June 2008: Dude, your response is not helpful. My husband didn't need to look elsewhere as he had it on tap at home if he wanted it. I offered to watch porn with him and basically do anything to get our sex life on track but he was never interested. He is not ... (read in full...)
It hurt and I had to stop him, does this mean I'm still a vrigin?
Q. so me and this guy have talking about sex for a while.. we're practically together. we were both virgins. but anyways i decided to let it go on.. he used protection and stuff and he fingered me good before.. and then he stuck his part in me and it ...
A. 2 June 2008: Well from the sound of it you're not a virgin any more. What you felt was your hymen breaking and that can be painful, I have to say that you are far to young to be having sex from the age on your profile. The legal age for sex is 16 and anyone ... (read in full...)
Need advice on positions for making love with my girlfriend who has cerebral palsy.
Q. Hi. I am in a sexual relationship with my 52 year old girlfriend who has CP. This affects the left side and she cannot move her left arm very easily. We have made love a couple of times. I have fingered and had oral sex. I have also had ...
A. 2 June 2008: I have to say that you are very brave for coming onto this site and sharing this with us. There are many positions you can use, for example spooning. Apart from that there are a great mnumber of positions you can use, it's up to you and your partner ... (read in full...)
For all the married people out there.... how in gods name do ye keep it going?
Q. Ok...so what if your boyfriend acts cool. As in you'll see him when you see him. Does it mean he doesnt love you. After nearly 3 years together is it normal to be nearly devoid of affection and compliments?? Please tell coz i just dont know!! What ...
A. 2 June 2008: I'm in your position darlin. I've been married for nine months and with him for 4 years. It's totally soul destroying as I should know. You need to speak to him. In my case there isn't a forever as there were reasons he wasn;t being as he should be. ... (read in full...)
How do I create an e-mail that sounds flirty?
Q. Other than in person, this guy I am kinda seeing and I mainly communicate via e-mail because he doesn't like talking on the phone. Our e-mails used to be a lot more flirty but the last 2 or so were short and not flirty at all. I'd like to get it ...
A. 2 June 2008: I think you need to give us a lot more detail hun. I have no starting point here on which to give advice. You can contact me personalle if you like.
BF xx
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Why cant she get pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and i are trying to have a kid. We have had sex so many times so why wont she get pregnant?...
A. 2 June 2008: Sorry but is your age right on this. Why on earth are you trying to have a child at your age, you're only a chid yourself. How old is your girlfriend? Don't you realise at this age you should not even be engaging in sexual relations? Sorry to sound ... (read in full...)
Should I get a pregnancy test for my girlfriend as she is a bit worried?
Q. Hey I'm 16 and I'm afraid. My girlfriend and I had sex, and We DID usea condom (and I'm pretty sure we put it on right, she put it on) and after about 10 minutes, I decided to check the condom and nothing wrong, but she noticed it was like whitish...
A. 2 June 2008: You're probably safe given the situation you have described but it doesn't hurt to do a test just to be on the safe side. You are being very mature about this and I'm pleased you are so concerned.
Like I say, it may be nothing but peace of mind ... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 31 May 2008: Thanls Angel but the addiction makes it easier for me to cope with. I'm not coping very well with this.... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 9 May 2008: Thank you so much guys, I'd never thought of it as an addiction before. I sat and talked to him about him and he refuses to accept it's an addiction even when I pointed out that, once he admits the addiction we can get help. He walked out last night ... (read in full...)
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