He has a Gf and I have no intention nor wish to steal him away. So why has he continually flirted with me, on an off, for ten months?
Q. My co-worker (head-chef of a cafe I work for part-time) seems to be flirting with me on and off. There's periods where he'll act really stroppy, and will ignore me completely. But at other times he'll be the one remembering minor details about me, ...
A. 15 November 2014: He's just a flirt, leave it at that.He's also in a relationship. Best avoided.... (read in full...)
Time is marching on. How do I move on? I need some positive encouragement, please?
Q. Hello all, I've just turned 39 and have been single for 8 months after ending a relationship which was toxic, I wont go into it but he had issues. Im very sad that at 39 I am alone and have no children. I have 3 siblings who have children, a...
A. 21 January 2012: I hope I have some positive feedback for you. I'm 38, I live alone with my cats after a painful divorce 4 yrs ago. My two sisters both have kids, even the one who was said to have the mothering instincts of a rat!! My relationships si... (read in full...)
I'm 23, and have much difficulty figuring out women!
Q. Okay so I'm an adult Autisic male who has never done anything noteworthy with the opposite sex to speak of and to add insult to injury everyone around me thinks that I am gay because of it and I myself am wondering of I am at least bi. I have felt ...
A. 25 August 2011: Good lord, I'm not even sure I want to comment on what your father has said apart from he has no idea about women! I have a very close friend who has the same problem as you have and he also faces the same level of discrimination which is a crying ... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 6 August 2009: I was going to delete this thread today as my therapist states that keeping going back through this is me tortu
rting myself. What she doesn't realise is how helpful this has all been to me. I'm a year and a half on from us splitting and it stil... (read in full...)
How do you rebuild your life after the breakdown of a marriage?
Q. Ok, I'm the poor sod who asked for help about a year ago with the husband who was addicted to porn, sex chat lines, websites etc. I have since made the move to get divorced from him and it has not been easy. At the moment I am suffering from s...
A. 7 July 2009: Thank you guys for your answers. It is so nice to know that here are supportive people out there and those who have gone through depression as well. I've booked an appt with my docs next week to talk about alternative treatment and am starting ... (read in full...)
Whats wrong with me? Is it depression?
Q. Hi, I'm new to this site. Basically I'm 17 (nearly 18) and have had a bit of a tough year. To cut a long story short this time last year I got broke up with my boyfriend, found out I was pregnant with his baby and had an abortion in February. My ...
A. 17 December 2008: I'm sorry to hear about your problems darlin. You sound more anxious than depressed and it's understandable given all that has happened to you. Unfortunately a lot of men do look at porn. It's not anything to do with you or any deficiency with ... (read in full...)
My guy has all these rules for me
Q. i hope somebody can shed light on my situation... I have been seeing a guy 4 8 months, we dont live together, he lives 60 miles away from me, we are in love like truly, but he always tells me how i shouldnt ring him in work and how i should call hi ...
A. 17 December 2008: Sorry to say this but have you wondered whether this man already has a partner? It does sound like he's trying to avoid being caught out to me. Any of the other agony aunts of the same opinion?... (read in full...)
My partner flirts with her daughter's boyfriend!
Q. hi iim really mixed up about my relationship.i am a lesbian, i have been with my girlfriend for 6 yrs. we dont live together as i had a flat before we met. an she had house with her two grown up daughters. whenever i go there its like if she dont ...
A. 17 December 2008: You may be looking for things because, from the sound of things, you're really unhappy with her. No-one should feel like they're being taken for granted and then being treated like dirt as well. It sounds like you're more serious about her than she ... (read in full...)
Smells bad "down there" don't want to tell my guy!
Q. im messinq with some guy and we already had sex but i be thinkinq that "down there" be smelling a little. i have a yeast infection i know that but is not really really that bad.it might smell just a bit but i discharged way too much and when i do ...
A. 11 December 2008: Don't have sex is my advice. I may be going out on a limb here and may sound a tad old fashioned, but if you are aged 13-15, you shouldn't be having sex anyway and if you do you should be being more careful. I you have a yeast infection then I'd see ... (read in full...)
I want to make my boyfriend realize he can lose me!
Q. Me and My boyfriend have been dating around a year. He seems different like he's tired of me or that he just doesn't care anymore. When i ask him he says no he loves me. but thats wat all boys say. What could i do or say to scare make him feel like ...
A. 11 December 2008: You're very young!! At your age I wouldn't worry too much about relationships. You will have plenty of grief from them as you get older anyway! I'd forget about relationships and concentrate on the things that matter at your age like school and your ... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex with me!
Q. Okay, there's a guy I really like. He's 17 and I've known him for a while. We're really good friends, but he wants to have sex with me. Should I agree to it? I'm kind of nervous, but how can I reject him? I don't want him to hate me as a ...
A. 11 December 2008: Your age states that you are 13-15, which means that you are legally below the age of consent anyway. I know that this may not mean a lot in this day and age but you have to also consider the legal implications as well as whether you really feel ... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 11 December 2008: Hi guys, just a quick update on my situation. My husband has never taken responsability for his actions and is telling his family that we split cos he was watching porn!!! Naturally they think I'm the devil incarnate fpr throwing my marriage away ... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 4 October 2008: Diovan, I appreciate the apology. The situation is still painful for me!
This has always gone on in our relationship unfortunately, even at the beginning he was telling lies and hiding stuff. He was never good with the sex issue and, believe ... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 2 October 2008: Thanks Devon for your needlessly insulting post. I have no problems with porn. What I do have a problem with is the lies and deceit I have faced for the last four years with this man. I DID try to introduce porn into the bedroom to improve our sex ... (read in full...)
Bad relationship, violence included - I'm left feeling unwanted and with no self-confidence. I want to feel happy with myself!
Q. I am 17 next month, and will be single for a year, I was in a relationship for 2 years in which i was badly treated that included violence from my ex partner. I still think about this alot and feel that my self confidence has gone down alot because ...
A. 12 June 2008: Hey darlin, i really feel for you as i was in exactly your position at your age. I dated a guy from 16-17 who used to beat me up and drag me down all the time. I will assume, like most abusers, that your boyfriend really went to town on your sel... (read in full...)
Children too soon or too late?
Q. My husband and I have only been married since March, and already he wants to have children, it is all he talks about. I realize that since there is such a huge age difference between us (he's 34, I'm 42), the biological clock is ticking and I need ...
A. 11 June 2008: I wouldn't worry. Many women these days are having children later in life and many find that their maturity is a massive bonus in raising a family. You are probably more financially and emotionally stable than many people who rush into family life ... (read in full...)
Where can a teenage girl who likes porn get it for free?
Q. i know that im gonna get alot of smart answers to this.. But im a 16 year old girl, and i'd like to try masturbating to porn.. are there any good free sites? apart from redtube?...
A. 11 June 2008: Youporn and hotgoo are really good. Both are free and totally safe
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Question for people who have broken up and then gotten back together with their significant others...
Q. Question for those that have broken up and gotten back together with their significant others: How long after the breakup did either you or your partner try to get back together with you? Or even if you didnt get back together, but either one o...
A. 11 June 2008: It really depends upon what has happened to break you up in the first place and whether you want to get back together. For many people moving on is difficult, especially when they still have feelings for their ex and for many of those people moving ... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 7 June 2008: Dude, your response is not helpful. My husband didn't need to look elsewhere as he had it on tap at home if he wanted it. I offered to watch porn with him and basically do anything to get our sex life on track but he was never interested. He is not ... (read in full...)
It hurt and I had to stop him, does this mean I'm still a vrigin?
Q. so me and this guy have talking about sex for a while.. we're practically together. we were both virgins. but anyways i decided to let it go on.. he used protection and stuff and he fingered me good before.. and then he stuck his part in me and it ...
A. 2 June 2008: Well from the sound of it you're not a virgin any more. What you felt was your hymen breaking and that can be painful, I have to say that you are far to young to be having sex from the age on your profile. The legal age for sex is 16 and anyone ... (read in full...)
Need advice on positions for making love with my girlfriend who has cerebral palsy.
Q. Hi. I am in a sexual relationship with my 52 year old girlfriend who has CP. This affects the left side and she cannot move her left arm very easily. We have made love a couple of times. I have fingered and had oral sex. I have also had ...
A. 2 June 2008: I have to say that you are very brave for coming onto this site and sharing this with us. There are many positions you can use, for example spooning. Apart from that there are a great mnumber of positions you can use, it's up to you and your partner ... (read in full...)
For all the married people out there.... how in gods name do ye keep it going?
Q. Ok...so what if your boyfriend acts cool. As in you'll see him when you see him. Does it mean he doesnt love you. After nearly 3 years together is it normal to be nearly devoid of affection and compliments?? Please tell coz i just dont know!! What ...
A. 2 June 2008: I'm in your position darlin. I've been married for nine months and with him for 4 years. It's totally soul destroying as I should know. You need to speak to him. In my case there isn't a forever as there were reasons he wasn;t being as he should be. ... (read in full...)
How do I create an e-mail that sounds flirty?
Q. Other than in person, this guy I am kinda seeing and I mainly communicate via e-mail because he doesn't like talking on the phone. Our e-mails used to be a lot more flirty but the last 2 or so were short and not flirty at all. I'd like to get it ...
A. 2 June 2008: I think you need to give us a lot more detail hun. I have no starting point here on which to give advice. You can contact me personalle if you like.
BF xx
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Why cant she get pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and i are trying to have a kid. We have had sex so many times so why wont she get pregnant?...
A. 2 June 2008: Sorry but is your age right on this. Why on earth are you trying to have a child at your age, you're only a chid yourself. How old is your girlfriend? Don't you realise at this age you should not even be engaging in sexual relations? Sorry to sound ... (read in full...)
Should I get a pregnancy test for my girlfriend as she is a bit worried?
Q. Hey I'm 16 and I'm afraid. My girlfriend and I had sex, and We DID usea condom (and I'm pretty sure we put it on right, she put it on) and after about 10 minutes, I decided to check the condom and nothing wrong, but she noticed it was like whitish...
A. 2 June 2008: You're probably safe given the situation you have described but it doesn't hurt to do a test just to be on the safe side. You are being very mature about this and I'm pleased you are so concerned.
Like I say, it may be nothing but peace of mind ... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 31 May 2008: Thanls Angel but the addiction makes it easier for me to cope with. I'm not coping very well with this.... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 9 May 2008: Thank you so much guys, I'd never thought of it as an addiction before. I sat and talked to him about him and he refuses to accept it's an addiction even when I pointed out that, once he admits the addiction we can get help. He walked out last night ... (read in full...)
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