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He had an orgasm on top, but not inside of me, what are the odds of pregnancy?

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Question - (31 July 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2008)
A female United States age 22-25, *xhis_girlxx writes:

about 6 days agot me and my boyfriend had sort of unprotected sex. hehad an orgasm on top of my vigina but not inside what are the chnces that im pregnant?

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (31 July 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHi, you must be very worried. Well, I hope that you are not pregnant, but you need to make sure that you are as educated as you can be if you are going to be sexually active. I do think that you are too young, if you really don't know all the facts yet.

Here's an informative video on how pregnancy occurs.

It might be time to talk to your mom too, she might be disappointed in you, but she would want you to be safe too.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2008):

There is a chance you are pregnant, even though it is a small one. You should really have taken the morning after pill.

Now unfortunately you are a bit stuck, so you will have to wait and see if your period comes and if not then go to the family planning people and get a test.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, sweetheart03 United States +, writes (31 July 2008):

I agree your too young you don't even know anything about sex you can tell by whatyo u wrote! Just wait! You will end up with an std and you don't want that. Sex is supposed to be with someone you love and if you were to get pregnat it would be someone who would take care of your child. And you both have to be ready. you're still in school. Do what I did wait til ur out of high school at least. I've been with the same guy and that's been crazy! Look online for stds and having kids at a young age maybe you will learn and change ur mind about sex without a condom that's the wrong thing to do even when you are in love! Cause if they cheat you can get an std that's why you always use a condom cause soon you will be pregnat

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A female reader, DoodlePixie United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2008):

Guys often ejaculate a tiny amount of sperm before they actually orgasm, so even if he did not fully come inside you, there is a chance that this mini ejaculation could lead to you getting pregnant.

It's foolish to have unprotected sex, you should only do so if you're actually intending to get pregnant which at 13-15 i highly doubt (and certainly hope) that was not your intention. Even forgetting about pregnancy, there is also the chance of your boyfriend having an STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection), which could at worst leave you infertile if you do not realise.

I say get yourself down to your local health centre and 1) take a pregnancy test and 2) get yourself checked out for any STIs. Please, please, PLEASE do not let this happen again. If he won't have sex with a condom then he's obviously not worth it.

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A female reader, Goiwan Algeria +, writes (31 July 2008):

Goiwan agony auntis that your actual age? honey i think you should be ready to face the consequences of 1.having sex at ur age 2. having unprotected sex... anyway its done... you need to go for a blood test and the doctor is the one who can tell... as a pregnancy test kit will not give you the acurate result until 2weeks elapses from the first time you had intercourse...

if you are -ve i think this should be a lesson that you need to take seriously and avoid this kind of situation again.. my advice only ends there if its +ve i just won't be able to advice you it will be up to you..

all the best honey and take care of urself these boys just wonna have fun.. . i think you should wait until you're time is ripe and you're ready... this will be helpful for you... early sex is not such a good experience guys will really use you alot and you'll get used to giving urself too easily such that sex will not be nothing special but an object of self gratification without spiritual gratification with a special person who is committed.


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