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What are you thought's on stretchmarks?

Q.   What do men think about strechmarks on a womens body?What does the female think about it too?...

A.   22 September 2008: Thing is its not just pregnant or even large people who get stretchmarks - i've got terrible stretchmarks that i started getting at the age of 12, simply from growth spurts. I've never been big yet even my mum has stated she's never even seen a ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is willing to do anything just to clear her face of acne, and it's causing problems between us.

Q.   Am I really being selfish? My girlfriend of nearly 2 years is currently on the pill, and has been since nearly the beginning of our relationship. The problem is she is 23 and almost 24, and she still has achne break outs, and feels she is missing ...

A.   17 September 2008: By the sounds of it her self esteem is rock bottom - people are often seriously bothered by certain aspects of their appearance even if other people say they are not. Whats worse for her is it isn't something she can easily disguise, meaning she ... (read in full...)

Does my vagina hurt because of the rough sex?

Q.   My boyfriend and I of a year, have been having sex for about 4/5 months. Sometimes, he wants sex when i don't but i don't tell him i don't want to but when we do, i like it and glad i do it. Last weekend, we had sex as soon as i came off my perio...

A.   8 September 2008: Heh as much as you're enjoying it you may want to slow down just a little bit on the sex. The constant friction against your vagina will surely cause the skin to hurt after a while and seeing as, as you phrased it, enjoy it "hard and fast" it means ... (read in full...)

What's the best way to make new cooler friends?

Q.   hey everyone im 15 and have a lot of good friends, although i dont have a close circle of friends i go to a girls school and dont have that many guy friends like i have a few from my youth club i would love some more friends, also i love go...

A.   8 September 2008: Well you said you're already a member of a youth group, maybe try a couple more or even attempt to organise a group at school, whether you're into sport or drama or music. That's the best way to create a close group of friends is to have somethin... (read in full...)

I'm taking a blood test soon, but I'm terribly afraid of needles. Help me!

Q.   Ok, I know this isn't a romantic question, but I really need some help about this. First, I'm terribly afraid of needles. I can stand the sight of one but once I see one I start thinking on how it will go into my arm and then many horror images wo...

A.   14 August 2008: Oh god, i'm so terrified of needles also....so totally understand you. I recently met a woman who is a practicing hypnotheripist and has offered to do some mumbo jumbo stuff on me to make my phobia go away - i'm tempted to accept as she seemed very ... (read in full...)

Am I right to put my foot down about him texting these girls?

Q.   Hi, needing a few opinions on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for not far off 4 years and its been great. Yet there has always been one thing that has worried me and makes me slightly paranoid and that is his constant texting with his girl...

A.   13 August 2008: Okay, as expected he spent a little while last night acting all upset and defensive that i was reading his texts but after an hour or so began saying he was really sorry and that he would completely stop texting them all together but i only give it ... (read in full...)

Am I right to put my foot down about him texting these girls?

Q.   Hi, needing a few opinions on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for not far off 4 years and its been great. Yet there has always been one thing that has worried me and makes me slightly paranoid and that is his constant texting with his girl...

A.   12 August 2008: Thanks for the replies guys, i just sorta ased him about these one's a found today and he did what he normally does: play dumb. I asked him if he were feeling sexually frustrated if he feels the need to have such sexual conversations wi... (read in full...)

My girlfriend says she can't tell when she has an orgasm

Q.   my girlfriend told me she can't tell when she cums. i know for a fact that some girls do know when they cum. is something wrong with her? and is it normal?...

A.   7 August 2008: I find this a little odd, and it just makes me suspect that she's never had an orgasm. It's a case of YOU KNOW when you're orgasming because the feeling is so intense and different to anything else. So she's either never actually had an orgasm o... (read in full...)

My wife is infertile so I decided to divorce, as children are important to me. Your comments?

Q.   I am 31 yrs old and married some six years back. We did not have a child due to the infertility problem from my wife side. I am an assistant professor. I am the only kid for my family. I want to have kids.Therefore I decided to divorce. I need your ...

A.   4 August 2008: I understand where you're coming from - if i ended up with an infertile partner i'd be crushed...but if i really loved them i don't think i could end my relationship just because they cannot have children. These days with technology their are so so ... (read in full...)

I'm 13. My mum says I can only go as far as holding hands - what do you think?

Q.   So here it is. I'm thirteen. I have a boyfriend. My mom doesn't exactly approve. She's fine with me dating but she only wants me holding hands. For my age, what is acceptable in a relationship? ...

A.   1 August 2008: I think you're mum's decision is a sensible one - she is purely looking out for you. You're still very young, so there is no need to rush anything - if it just so happens that after a while you and your boyfriend decide to kiss then make sure it ... (read in full...)

Would it be wrong to place an ad in a paper asking for someone to get me pregnant?

Q.   My husband can not get me pregnant do to a surgery that he had many years ago. My question for this community is this. Would it be wrong to place an ad in a paper asking for someone to get me pregnant?...

A.   31 July 2008: You've also got to consider if you went along with this, that whoever the donor is may later decide he wants to be involved in his childs life (as biologically it will be his). It could potentially create a third person in your relationship. At le... (read in full...)

He had an orgasm on top, but not inside of me, what are the odds of pregnancy?

Q.   about 6 days agot me and my boyfriend had sort of unprotected sex. hehad an orgasm on top of my vigina but not inside what are the chnces that im pregnant?...

A.   31 July 2008: Guys often ejaculate a tiny amount of sperm before they actually orgasm, so even if he did not fully come inside you, there is a chance that this mini ejaculation could lead to you getting pregnant. It's foolish to have unprotected sex,... (read in full...)

Do men find strectch marks a turn off in women?

Q.   Hi, This is one for the guys: Do you find stretch marks a turn off on a woman?...

A.   30 July 2008: I've got terrible stretch marks simply through growth sperts when i was young - i'm not overweight either. I was disgusted with them and terrified of anyone seeing them but my boyfriend never once mentioned them. If i said that i thought they were ... (read in full...)

I don't make any noises during sex... should I fake it?

Q.   Note: I am a girl. So, I have recently become "sexually active" as they say. What I've realised is, despite thoroughly enjoying myself, I don't ever make any sex noises. Is this a big deal? Is anyone else quiet during sex/oral/fingeri...

A.   29 July 2008: This is a nice reflection on sex that had been given to us by the porn industry - that we should scream at the top of our lungs during sex! Most people don't make much noise during sex, i tend not to. However my boyfriend did note once that i was ... (read in full...)

What does losing your virginity mean?

Q.   Hello, I have a question about losing your Virginity, when exsactly does a girl lose it i've heard it's upon penetration but can that be penetration with any objest or does it only count if its with a penis? what does losing your Virginity ...

A.   29 July 2008: "Losing your virginity" refers to that first time you have sexual intercourse with another person. It's more a social term that determines you've had a close sexual relationship for the first time rather than a scientific term suggesting you have ... (read in full...)

I'm 14, and I want a baby... I really feel ready, but I'm catholic... what do I do?

Q.   okay. well i'm fourteen. and i really want a baby. i had a dream about it the other nite and i was so happy adn i was shopping for stuff liek a baby blanket and a nuk, and i was so happy i just kept holding my stomach. there is a few problems. one ...

A.   29 July 2008: I'm now 18 and have felt the same desire for a baby since i was about 14 or 15, but i've come to realise it's just hormones and your maternal instinct kicking in, most girls get it at some point. I've never tried to repress it as i feel it can then ... (read in full...)

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