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writes:I have a question for the men.Do you guys discuss what happens in the bedroom with your male buddies, or best friends?I'd like to think what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Do you guys compare notes and tell each other if she was a good lover or not?
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reader, heatherrrrrrr +, writes (31 July 2008):
 It depends on the person. My boyfriend got a little upset with me for sharing a few juicy details of our sex life with my best girlfriend. He said that stuff is private and he doesn't tell anyone what we do, so he'd prefer if I didn't either.
HOWEVER, I've dated other guys who actually made up stories about stuff that never happened, one of them I had dated for two years. Turns out they were really super insecure idiots, which is why we broke up.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 One nighter maybe
A loved girlfriend or wife, no. If a man doesnt have enough respect for their loved one, then their not a man really
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): I can't believe all the men here saying that guys don't do that. What a crock! I'm sure many don't, but fact is many, many do. I've seen it time and time again. And it's happened to me. My ex-boyfriend (who I was with for a year and a half - no one night stand) told extremely personal things to his buddy about me and our sex life, such as the fact that I was a virgin before him, and that if he "got anal it wouldn't be for a very long time" but that "at least I swallowed." And, in turn, I his buddy told him very explicitly about the sex he had with his girlfriend. As well, I have many male friends with whom I'm close and I know for fact from them that they compare notes in detail. By the way, these are all guys in their late 20s, early 30s I'm speaking of - men, supposedly, not boys. So yes, poster, many guys absolutely do dish on what goes on in the bedroom, one night stand or no.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 No. We make things up because else we can't compete with the other made up stories.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): I agree. To talk about what happens in a serious relationship is taboo.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008):
I think it depends on the girl, the friend, the situation, and more importantly, how drunk I am.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 Only if its a one night stand. And even then its pretty vague. But it all depends on the sophistication level me thinks. Are rough and ready bloke will simply say: "corrr.she was a great shag ". A red wine drinking, leftie, tree hugging intellectual may say "corr..she was a lovely shag".
o.k. so there's not much difference, but that's men I guess.
No guy tells his mates about his sex life with a girlfriend or wife.
So I wouldnt worry, unlike women who I know discuss every single gory detail.!
peace.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 No. Not ever. Can't imagine any situation in which I ever would. Never heard any of my friends ever doing this. Just not, in general, something that men do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2008): That depends entirely upon whether it was a quickie one night job or something more serious. Much the same as women do, I imagine.
If it was a one nighter and she was brilliant I wouldn't go advertising the fact if I wanted to go back for more of the same, just in case someone else decided they'd like to sample some of what I'd had.
If it was a serious relationship then no way would I discuss with anyone what went on between us in the bedroom, on the kitchen table or the lounge carpet.
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