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We broke up and his friend raped me. We got back together and when I told him he said he can't deal with it anymore. What do I do?

Q.   me and my boyfriend broke up 3 months ago and i became good friends with his friend.. but his friend raped me one night when we were out at a club. me and my boyfriend got back together and have been together for a month but i just told him what ...

A.   8 March 2007: sorry love, it is a big step. first of all go and get help, i have been through this, sort yourself out and make sure your ok, as for your bf, it is a big thing for him to accept as his best friend betrayed him and he is also scared now. just give ... (read in full...)

I really dont remember when he got the test done, is he hiding something!?

Q.   my b/f hates all doctors and never goes for anything..he has to get some tests done for work so he needs blood work done and he said the last time it was done was 9 months ago..the thing is..i really don't remember that mentioned or anything 9 ...

A.   7 March 2007: give it time, ask him to go to docs with him , try not to get hacked off with it, take it easy, time will tell, ask him straight, if not then say its over, in a relationship there should be no secrets, it will alwats causw arguemnts good luvk let... (read in full...)

My ex is friends with my current boyfriend but told him he still liked me so he dumped me and I'm devestated!

Q.   plz help..my head is wrecked!! i was with a guy 4 two years and was madly in love but then he became 2 possesive and i couldnt handle it so i finished wit him..we both moved on..5 months later we get close again i realise hes changed and fall 4 him ...

A.   7 March 2007: the both of you are playing the field, you both have now done things to hurt each other, when you 1st broke up with him he must of been hurt, and when you done it the second time he realised but now the tables have turned and your with his friends ... (read in full...)

I feel like I've lost him and I'm in tears...

Q.   hey , I dont think My boyfriend likes me anymore.. At first we couldnt keep our hands of each other but he moved house and he lives next door to lots of girls around the same age as us. One of them the same age as me keeps syaing horrible things ...

A.   7 March 2007: love if he is doing this to you is he worth it. he wanted to know why you didn make a fuss cos he expected you to, that is how childish he is, let him grow up a bit and see what he has missed, and dont be disheartened about these other girls, if he ... (read in full...)

Why do you think he's ignoring me?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I really like this boy in my year but i don't know if he likes me or not. Whenever i am on msn i talk to him but he doesn't reply. I have'nt done anything wrong, well at least i don't think i have. Why do you thik he's ignoring me? than...

A.   7 March 2007: maybe he is not ready for a relationship yet, why dont you just ask him face to face that way you will get an answer, if not dig around his friends see what they say, but dont be upset if it is rejection, your only young but the only way to find out ... (read in full...)

He says his feelings towards me have changed but I would marry him in a heartbeat. Should I stick around and work on things or just go ahead and pull the plug now?

Q.   I moved in with my boyfriend about 5 months ago. He used to tell me that he wanted to be with just me and knew he would marry me one day. Since we moved in we have been arguing a lot more and he recently told me that he did not think he could marry ...

A.   7 March 2007: moving in is a big step, and always has its ups and downs, but if i could move in with my partner i would. but now your more likely to row as you see each other constantly and most probably dont do the things you normally did. try suggesting ... (read in full...)

I've been trying but nothing comes out... How do you masturbate???

Q.   How do you masturbate? I dont know how to? I've been trying but nothin comes out an I didnt cum - is sumthing wrong? many of my friends can do it. i barely do and nothing happens! Do I have a problem? What is wrong?...

A.   7 March 2007: you need to relax and learn, take things slowly, try different things, like porm or dreams, anything different. if this persists i suggest go to your doctors rachel relax a bit more... (read in full...)

I was wondering if she thinks I'm cute? She always smiles and flirts around me.

Q.   I have know this girl for about two years and I was wandering if she thinks I am cute. She always smiles at me and flirts around but I dont know and I am also afriad I am to old for her she is 13 1/2 and I am 15 1/2...

A.   7 March 2007: why dont you ask her, instead of wondering, otherwise you might not ever find out, flirting could be her natural thing or it could be that she likes you, just ask her, there is no harm, and the age thing does not matter only if it becomes serious, ... (read in full...)

I really like this boy in my class, my friends say he likes me, how can I ask him out?

Q.   i really like this lad in my class and i really want to ask him out and all my friend tell me he likes me but i dont know can anyone help me and fast...

A.   7 March 2007: be straight, see if you can get him on his own or send him a love letter, your still young, so just ask him or ask your close friend just in case you are afraid. it gets easier as you get older. hope this helps let me know rachel... (read in full...)

Does she like me or does she not, it's driving my crazy!!!

Q.   I love this girl but I am not sure she loves me or even if she cares about me. She talks to me and she twists her hair when she does it, I heard that is a sign that a girl likes you. She sits by me and sometimes she stares at me and It is driving ...

A.   7 March 2007: Go up to her and make the first move, if you do not then you will never know the answer. rejection is hard but the signs are good. Pluck up the courage to ask her out. Young love is sweet, dont be afraid take care... (read in full...)

My gf drinks too much and treats me badly! Should I stay or leave?

Q.   My girlfriend drinks excessively and then treats me bad. In the year we have been dating she has thrown a plastic cup in my face, came to visit me and left for the whole day to party with her friends b/c she got pissed and then called me crying ...

A.   7 March 2007: Hi there, from my situation, i would say to her to get help and completed before even considering to take her back. It will wreck your self-esteem, yes you may love her, but also if she loves you she will help herself to get help then maybe it will ... (read in full...)

He gave my clothes to a hooker! I am hurt and he thinks I am crazy to feel this way...help?

Q.   My longtime boyfriend of eight years has given clothing of mine to someone who I know is a hooker, drug user and possibly involved with my boyfriend. I feel totally betrayed and am emotionaly angry and hurt. My boyfriend thinks I'm crazy. Help?...

A.   7 March 2007: hi hun your not crazy at all. why in the first place would he think of giving her your clothes, is there not another way to help this women. he seems not to take your feelings into consideration which after 8years is pretty pathetic. Ask him who ... (read in full...)

He says I'm fat, wants to leave me and wants to have sex with other women... but I love him, what do I do?

Q.   hi me and my bf are together for 8years now.a year ago he started to swear at me then he changed alot towards me he got very rude and had a bad temper, he gets angry quickly. He told my yesterday he actually wants to leave me coz its my fault he ...

A.   4 March 2007: hey i am a big girl and am going through the same as you but being big aint the reason, my partner or ex, doesn't care about that there are other reasons, but 8years is a long time, leave him love, but i know how hard it is cos thats what they said ... (read in full...)

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