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writes: Okay, so I ended it with my boyfriend today, and I don't think he knows I'm serious? :/ He keeps saying love you baby in texts and stuff, when I don't say it back he gets upset, eh I just ended it, why would I say it back? :( It's making it pretty hard.What makes it worse is that he's a complete liar. Whenever I end it he lies. Today, he was "on a bus and it crashed into a lorry." when I asked him about it after the "ambulance had arrived" he forgot about half the "injuries" he had said before. It's ridiculous! He just won't bloody stop!I tried to be nice, and I still am but I'm so close to just ignoring his texts and not taking any of his crap.Any way to stop me from overreacting and saying something that’ll hurt him? :/
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 He sounds as though he has a thick skull or a hearing problem, so I doubt that anything you say would truly hurt him. Just be firm.
"It's over. Stop calling me. It's over. Stop calling me." Then don't take any more of his messages. And turn off your phone and don't send him any more texts, don't reply. Make sure your friends all know that you have split up and that there's no confusion on their parts. Tell them you need to turn off your phone for a while and then just give it time to sink into that skull of his.
Good luck!
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reader, DanniLK  +, writes (25 July 2009):
well if he is in love with you there is no way with out hurting him. just keep telling him that your not together until he gets it
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reader, Quacked +, writes (25 July 2009):
 Tell him once more that it's over then stop responding to him. Don't waste your time on him. Clearly this is part of his personality and by giving him your attention you are just feeling this personality. You have to be cruel to be kind sometimes, you've ended it so ignore him. He'll get the message eventually and disappear...
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reader, Starlights +, writes (25 July 2009):
 this is all part of his personality.
tell him again and keep reminding him you are not his girlfriend.
if he continues his ways try cutting down the time you spend to him.
this will save you from him trying to win your attention with absurd stories.
good luck!
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reader, Rebecca. +, writes (25 July 2009):
Just be honest with him and text him saying were not together anymore. He doesnt sound like a very nice person anyway if he lies about accidents like that. Just be honest with him and tell him it might be hurtful to him but its the best way to stop him texting you saying he loves you.
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