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male
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36-40,
*hippymunk
writes:I am in a bit of a bind. A co-worker of mine is interested in me but I am not interested in her in that way. We've only known each other for about a month but I only see her once a week. She gave me her email and insisted I add her on msn. When I did so, she said some really weird things like, "Do you daydream about sex?" which was really awkward. Normally I would just let her down easy, but the problem is that I still have to work with her and that she gets mad really easy. I told her I was going on a trip and she got kind of upset. But the thing that got to me was when I went to the bank for 5 mins, she later started to drill me on why I took so long because she went home before I got back. Any advice on how I should let her down? The smallest bit of bad news seems to set her off =/
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): Just tell her straight that your not interested sounds like she is coming across a little bit needy and desperate which isn't attractive or doing her any favours! If it's really hard to do that try suggesting she goes on a date with someone else (focus her attention somewhere else) or just tell her your not looking to get into anything with her or make strong suggestions that you like someone else or are seeing someone that should give her a clear message without her going nuts :0)
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (25 July 2009):
 you sound like you have an obessessed fan there.
try talkin to her and say your not looking for a relationship.
if she continues to hassle you , you can report her to work, because this is against work rules.
ultimately you dont find her attractive and your there to work so dont worry.
good luck!
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