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He broke up with me, but I don't understand why!

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Question - (4 January 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i was with my ex boyfriend for a month but knew him before. everything was perfect my mum knows his parents an an she liked him an his parents liked me, we spent christmas together and thats the first time i ever spent christmas with a boy. he was the first boy who's hous i slept over and he is my first love. but then we didnt see eachother for two days because he crashed his car and found it hard to come and see me but i kept on at him kept ringing him and texting him and he seemed off with me so i kept sayin sorry for whatever ive done wrong and then he texted me saying "hey, sorry i been off lately but i dont think things are working out between us" i cried and cried and then called him and asked him why, he didnt wanna talk 2 me so he got his friend to answer the phone but when i did speak to him he said he wasnt happy anymore i started crying and he just said "this is why i didnt wanna talk to you" and put the phone down i really want him back and i have cried for 3 days straight, i havent txt him or called him because my mum said ust wait and he will get in touch. he wants to be friends and i said yes he text me saying "happy new year luv u as a mate" does this mean anything? i want to know why he wasnt happy but i dont wanna ask him his friend is very loyal to me and said there is definately no one else. i love him and i want him back i understand he needs time but i really need him i feel lonely. please write back xxx

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A female reader, ill try and help you +, writes (7 January 2007):


i know what your going through, my bf done this to me last nite and i have not stopped crying, i was with him 4 just over 2years and i loved him so much i would do anything to get him back! but he dont want me! give them time boys dont think like we girls do! they mite change there mind and see sence and they will need us one day!

if you wana talk email me!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007):

thanks gabriella! its just the advice i needed ive cried alot yes and it was terrible but i can feel myself healing i will talk to him casually when i see him or if he calls me and see if he brings it up first.

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A female reader, gabriella lopez  +, writes (4 January 2007):

gabriella lopez agony auntWell your mom is right give him some time. But first of all it's better to hear the anwser from the source( boyfriend)! And when you confront him you should also say why are you sending mixed messages, tell him your feeling and the reason you were crying is because you really care about him and you thought he felt the same. I think you have all the reason to cry, because for someone to break up with you for no reason is one of the worst things any person can do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007):

I did this once.

Wonder if its the same guy. That'd be hilarious.

Does his name begin with S? End in N?

Sorry just curious.

Okay basically - You freaked him out. The HELL out.

Crying and apologizing are freaking him out more. Your coming on as a total needy weepy cling on.

I'm not saying you are, but thats how guys realize this.

Try and talk to them when they're busy and they go all go figure weird

If you want to stand a chance. CUT ALL CONTACT.

Try and get yourself over it, but honestly, if there is a chance, you have to wait for him to come to you.

Cause otherwise you just kill it.

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