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writes: Ok so im a 16 year old guy with just like any other man a sex drive to many hot women. So anyways my father recently got divorsed and married another women which had 2 daughters one of them is 16 and the other 21. They are very attractive and cause they had become my step sisters i do my best not to look at them in a bad way... At the moment i am living with them in the same house i am very attracted towards the 16 year old step sister and i have no idea what to do. Some times when i am sitting alone in the house i get alot of thoughts with her sexual thoughts that is and i try not to think about it but its so damn hard she is very attractive...I have had many oppurtunities to make a move but i fear the reaction from her and the idea of us being related and had sex.Has anyone experienced this at all? and can maybe share some advice? Cause im very worried sooner or later im gona have to do something.P.S Please dont think of me as somee sick guy its just that shes not blood related and very attracted and i cant stand it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2006): I have a atep sister that i am very attractive too and i found out she is crazy about me too. i didnt know what to do but one day things just happen and i dont regret it because were not blood kin but she went and told people and we dont even see each other anymore. so even if you have feeling and i had very strong thought i was in love feelings and then my dad married her mom and we had to stop but it did happen again and she told and now we never get to talk.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (5 May 2006):
 It's really a good idea not to do anything with her. However, there is one great thing about having a sister the same age as you... she'll have lots of girlfriends also the same age! I suggest hanging out with her enough to meet some of her friends, you'll probably find one or more of them pretty quickly that you like enough to take your mind off your sister.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2006): I am in a similar situation and i think i might now whats its like, walking home tired from school or from work then going to the living room and shes lying there asleep and her thighs showing. What makes it hard to ignore is that you see her many times in many situations that make you want to be with her eventhough you might be in love with another girl or something.
I myself have walked on my sister in her langerai and once she was naked and everytime that happened it made it harder to forget i have a sexy sister in the other side of the house.
Just like everyone said being with her or having any sort of intercoarse will just make everything awkward and fucked up imagine things went bad? imagine someone in your family found out? its just way to diffiuclt to control, like DrPsych said she might not think of you the same way you think of her she might actually consider you as a real blood related brother.
The way to get out of this is 3 options:
1. Live somewhere else like with your grand parents or with your cousins just for a while till you get over it.
2. Make yourself hate her, dont be a nice brother and shit just annoy her till you both hate each other.
3. Completely ignore her unless she talks to you and if she does make it a short conversation dont compliment her nothing just forget she lives in the same house and try not to go to her room at all.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (4 May 2006):
 There is no blood link so technically your intentions are not illegal but it could cause a hell of a lot of trouble in your family. At 16 I am guessing you are still living at home, financially dependent on your father etc and if your father + his wife disapprove of your relationship with your stepsister it might put a strain on their marriage, and you may be unwelcome in your own home. YOu might fancy this girl but she might just see you as her 'brother' and that could really upset her, and she might not feel relaxed at home. Even if you do fancy each other, imagine you have a fling and then it all goes bad? You still have to live under the same roof?
Everyone has galloping hormones at your age (that is normal) but unless you are living in the North Pole I am sure there are loads of girls in your local community who are attractive and less complicated!
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (4 May 2006):
 In that sense if she is not blood related I suppose it is correct but iam not sure about that statement the only thing is she is now your family and I suppose it would be wrong in a sense coz it might dispruot family relations and harmony and may cause conficlts and problems.
You need to think carefully about this.because eventhough she may not be blood related either way it may still be regarded as incestuous. So have a careful think about this.
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reader, kissable100 +, writes (4 May 2006):
 i dont think your sick! i jus feel a lil sorry for you as your situation is a very tricky one. try to spend more time with her and come closer as m8s! and valentines day send her and her sister a card and say its because im your step brother! make it sound as if your flirting but as a brotherly way wait for her reaction for these things and keep in touch xxx
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