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female
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*aveykisses
writes:I need advice.I have been seeing this guy for about a month now. And we have gotten pretty serious. He has told his family about me and other people but he doesnt tell any of his female friends we are together. And when they ask who he is dating he tells them he is dating himself and he tells people i am his friend or sister and i am not sure if he is as serious as me or he just wants me around to be a f^^^^ buddy. I mean i have known him for 6 years and i have been in love with him from day one but i feel like he just has me around to have me around till he finds a new girlfriend...what do i do...should i stay with him or break up before i get hurt... Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 November 2011):
 It is a red flag warning that he tells other females that you are his sister or his friend!! There is something worrying about that, have you spoke to him about it and ask him why he feels the need to do that?
Just remember that you have only been dating for a month, so it is quite a short time to be getting to serious about him. If you come on to strong to soon well then you might lose him. Just take things slowly. I am assuming you are both exclusive? Has he actually asked you to be his girlfriend? You need to talk to him and just ask him where you stand with him.
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