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writes:Basically one of my mates and I have started getting very close over the last few months to the point that we are cuddle bitches one could say : The issue is that as the one in this situation, i dont mind and sort of enjoy the female attention i am getting.However i dont want to be in a situation where if she starts flirting with other guys ill get resentful and in turn hurt because i was never considered. However she has already got upset i was tighter with her flatmate in the past then her, and my loyalty lies with the flatmate. She just broke up two months ago from a two year relationship and could be using me as a rebound/substitute. I dont know whether to save my own skin and pull away from her, keep going and hope for her to like me and vica versa and get to a mutual feeling, or talk to her straight about it ... which might end up with an awkward i thought we were only friends convo and awkward friendship from then on.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 November 2011):
 Ok so you are male then? Well in that case I guess it changes things, your best bet is if you like this girl and see her as a potential girlfriend well then talk to her and ask her how she feels, tell her you like her and be open and honest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo I just put a female account to hide identity, sorry for any confusion caused
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (5 November 2011):
Are you both lesbians? This is the first major question, because you don't specify if you are or not. It does sound to me like she looks to you as a close female friend but something tells me this is all that she is interested in. Has she ever told you that she romantically likes girls. You need to get this clear first before you take things further.
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