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Mentally abusive, financially abusive, intimidating, threatening, hitting

Q.   I have been married for 24 years, and have 4 children 27 years, 23 years, my 17 year old and my 11 year old daughter's live at home. My husband has become so abusive that I do not know him any longer, nor do I trust him. I found out he has a ma...

A.   21 January 2011: Go get a job. I assume you are American, well, they used to call that place the land of Oportunity. Milions around the world would give their left hand just to be allowed to live there and do the worst jobs. Why can't you ? I am sorry for your... (read in full...)

Embarrassing BDSM fetish....

Q.   I have a really embarrassing BDSM fetish. I have always had a deep desire to be humiliated, degraded, and owned. The problem is that my boyfriend and I were both raised very traditionally and when I brought up the subject he completely freaked out. ...

A.   5 January 2011: I so wish you were My Girlfriend instead of his. I am into the BDSM lifestyle, though I am really just a sadist rather then a Dom, so i know very well how strong the desire for this kinky activity can be, those who are not into it cant ... (read in full...)

For the girls: Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker?

Q.   Is an uncircumcised penis a deal breaker? Only for women...

A.   5 January 2011: To be honest I am shocked, I always assumed this useless practice has been abendoned long ago, and now I see the things are almost as if there are more curcamsised men out there that those who are not. I guess in America that might be the ... (read in full...)

I think I'm ready for light BDSM but my boyfriend says I'm not! Is he right?

Q.   There is something that I would LOVE to try with my boyfriend, and I've told him about this. I would love to try some light bondage, some light domination. (I say light because I've never done it before, so I'd just like to try it out and see if I ...

A.   5 December 2010: Be sure to know, what his real desires are. Dous he want to be just your Dom, who is going to tie you up on occasion and perhaps spank you. Or are you getting yourself into more extreme activities such as bloody floggings or asphyxiation games. ... (read in full...)

Do all men secretly prefer big breasted women?

Q.   I've read many articles which say many studies have been done which prove that men prefer larger breasts, even on an unconscious level, because most men consciously say that size doesn't matter. But science has proved otherwise. However, most men ...

A.   5 December 2010: Ok... ok.. you are obviosly desporate. So where do we start ? Well first of all I never associated " cute girl " to a child or 12 y old, when I describe a girl as " cute ' it measn she is nice, she is sexy, ANd DEFENATELY desirable. Size of the ... (read in full...)

Opinions on women going braless

Q.   Well I have been doing some research and I keep finding out that it has never been proven that bras help keep breast firm, or stop them from sagging. I've been thinking about this issue, and what bras mean in the bigger picture, and I just don't ...

A.   5 December 2010: I have no issue with females who go braless, it is perfectly ok even for those with large breasts or if the nipples show thru the fabric. However, honestly, when I am with a girl, and she takes her top off I would prefer if i see a pair of n... (read in full...)

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