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Flirting: How would a girl react to my attempting flirting with her

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Question - (1 September 2014) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2014)
A male Australia age 18-21, *ndrewYourz writes:

How would a girl react to me flirting?

What a question I know but something I think I really need to know is what do most girls do when a guy approaches them?

Do they get inward butterflies are they flattered or am I just one more person to be ignored? Through all of this please presume I'm at least an average guy that nobody knows of.

I'm big strong and rather rough and tough with my guy friends but I am very sensitive when I am with girl. I try to understand and I also try and make them feel comfortable and relaxed with all the chivalry I can muster (( which is a fair bit) sorry that was a bit boastful )

So really my question is when a girl is approached does she grind guys like me under her foot, bear with them or fall right down at my knees?

Please submit answers based on what I have told you Thank you

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A male reader, AndrewYourz Australia +, writes (1 September 2014):

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AndrewYourz agony auntThanks so much everyone1

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (1 September 2014):

Honeypie agony auntTry it.

But let me tell you this, flirting is a ARTFORM, most people are not NATURAL flirts. It takes originality and practise to be a GOOD flirt.

So maybe just be nice to people to start with. Use your manners, girls will notice.

And like BA said, watch the whole flirting with ALL the cute girls. You are not going on a fishing expedition hoping for a bite. And IF you ARE, then trust me the girls will see RIGHT through it.

And no, girls will not FALL at your feet because you utter some semblance to complaints or cheesy pick up lines (which I might add... PICK UP lines are NOT real flirting).

A WINK at the right girl, at the right time can DO a LOT more than a cheesy pick up line can.

And what the whole "sensitive guy" routine. If that is an act.. it will eventually shine through.

I'm not sure what you exactly mean by being chivalrous. If you mean you behave like a gentleman around girls, then keep it up, just don't be overdoing it or be fake about it.

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A female reader, Via F. United States +, writes (1 September 2014):

Via F. agony auntHmm...

Ok, you go for the cheesy flirt, like, Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?, the girl is going to probably slap you or something like that. If you go for the nice approach, where you are just being yourself, then the girl is going to like you. A girl doesn't want a fraud. Most girls appreciate chivalry, which as you said, you have to offer.

Ex: I met a guy, he was funny and smart. He likes vanilla Oreos. He grabbed half of the stack of vanilla Oreos and we ran around handing out vanilla Oreos to people playing basketball outside. And um...I like him.

Did that help? Tell me if not.

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A female reader, Behavioural Analysis United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2014):

Behavioural Analysis agony auntThis is your third or fourth post on girls, stop worrying yourself so much! :)

Ultimately, a girl who doesn't like you may reject you, hopefully gently. A girl who does like you a little may giggle at your flirting or flirt back.

However, since nobody seems to have shown you that they really like you, I'd advise against flirting with loads of different girls because you could be seen as someone who just wants any girl, and that's not a nice feeling for anyone.

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