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I'm a single girl in Middle School (sorry for the age glitch, I thought there was an age limit), that has been giving out advice for a long time. I was always that friend that you would turn to for advice. You know that shy kid in the back of the room that never raises her hand? Yeah, that's me.

My pet peeve is when people think guys are better than girl's because they are girl's. Also when there are typos in published books...

Anyway, my life goal is to help someone in ways other's have helped me. I want to impact someone in a BIG way.

Questions about crushes

Q.   Hi again I'm back with another question that's been bugging me. How often do girls crush? So like they are with their friends and about ten different guys enter the conversation does that mean they like them all and just exactly how easy is it to ...

A.   2 October 2014: I agree with honeypie. It's really hard to tell. Look, it differs from some girls to the other. One might straight up flirt with you, batting her eyelashes or other gross stuff I don't bother with. Some girls will keep quiet and be shy, maybe yo... (read in full...)

I enjoy my life but want to feel important to someone else

Q.   I'm confused about why I want things/ people in my life... I have a group of friends who are quite loud and chatty and funny. I'm fairly quiet. If I speak up in the group - nobody hears me, and nobody ever responds to me. When we use Whatsapp to ...

A.   21 September 2014: To be straightforward, my rule for friends is that if you don't feel happy about them, they really are not your friends. I went through a stage of my life a bit like the situation your in. No one listened to me. I was the shy quiet in the back of ... (read in full...)

2 guys and I'm confused!

Q.   Hi everyone well for the last 6 months 2 guys have been interested in me. Both of them are my friends. I find them both attractive. The first one has done so much for me, he is always there when i ask him for help, he has helped me more time...

A.   7 September 2014: The easiest way is to confess to him. Say what you said in this post. You don't find guys like the first one every day. The second boy is a jerk. Don't even waste your time on him. If the best day of your life was with the first guy, then you need ... (read in full...)

Why don't guys hit on me more often?

Q.   I'm a tall female with a bit extra weight, like I have a normal BMI but I'm definitely soft and curvy. People often compliment me on my looks indirectly or openly, guys as well as girls, we even had an anonymous survey-type game in one group I was ...

A.   7 September 2014: I will make this short and sweet. The guys that don't ask you out, might actually be jerks, and the less attractive guys actually might have a big heart. So try not to judge by looks and maybe give the guys a chance. :)... (read in full...)

Why do guys seem to act weird around me?

Q.   Okay so there is a guy at my class that has been acting weird. I think he likes mme because I noticed some signs. Well he always glance at me and we once hold the gaze for five seconds. Then he looked away awkwardly. He sits in front of me in my ...

A.   7 September 2014: So yes, that boy does like you. You're spot on. Now, based off of all the guys staring at you, you are probably pretty. So here's the clue to the liking for looks v. personality: If the guys likes you right when he looks at you, and you barely k... (read in full...)

Should I just brave it and try to approach girls. What are some good tips to connect with girls?

Q.   I am 15, tall, muscular, well featured, and intelligent. I never curse or swear and I would never insult anyone. I respect all girls but especially like brown haired, cute, and shy girls. I homeschool so therefore I don't socialise much but when...

A.   1 September 2014: ...Good Lord... You literally just described me in that post. ... Anyway. I say you go for it, but be careful. There will be girl's who will try and change you and or want you only because of your looks. There will be girls who wouldn't do that... (read in full...)

How often do teenage girls reject people?

Q.   Do teenage girls often reject people? I have been single my whole life because I fear rejection and if I make up my mind to approach my crush I drop out or stuff up or even worse say something stupid. Once though I managed to ask a crush to dance ...

A.   1 September 2014: There will be a girl that likes you for who you are, not your looks. There are some girls who can see past the muscles and see a jerk. You don't seem like a jerk. Like Will said just be yourself around her, and try and be polite too. There will be a ... (read in full...)

Forever single?. How do I learn to be more comfortable with girls? How or when or where can I touch a girl?

Q.   How do I touch girls? I have been forever single. In order for me to have a girlfriend she needs to see that other girls are comfortable round me. The problem is I fear them all so much that I can't remember the last time ( if it even exists ) tha...

A.   1 September 2014: Start out with being a friend with one. DO NOT I say DO NOT go for the gossip girls. They are usually pale scrawny and or wear dresses every day. If her smile screams warm to you, then go for it. See how she talks to other people. Are you good at g... (read in full...)

Flirting: How would a girl react to my attempting flirting with her

Q.   How would a girl react to me flirting? What a question I know but something I think I really need to know is what do most girls do when a guy approaches them? Do they get inward butterflies are they flattered or am I just one more person to be...

A.   1 September 2014: Hmm... Ok, you go for the cheesy flirt, like, Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?, the girl is going to probably slap you or something like that. If you go for the nice approach, where you are just being yourself, then the girl is going to like... (read in full...)

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