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30-35,
*liza.
writes:Last night, I went to my school's football game because the guy that I like--who's on the team--invited me to come and watch; when the game was over he met me over by the gate where everyone comes in and asked did I enjoy it amongst other things, eventually I asked him did he like me and he said yes, but he liked another girl too--she's on the school's drill team--and then I asked "on a scale of one to ten how strong are your feelings for each of us?", he gave me a eight and gave the other girl a nine and a half. That made me upset so I just decided to leave but before I did he said that he'd call me (seeing how I was tearing up)and he PROMISED that he would. To make a long story short; he never called, finally I was going to have a chance to sit down and get everything off my chest but of course it didn't happen.Everyone thinks he just trying to play me but I don't know what to do. he's a 16-year-old football player; should I believe them? I'm so confused.
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reader, AskLadyJuJu +, writes (24 October 2009):
 so agreed from caring guy ..you can do so much better hun what he said was so out of line .. dont ever take his word again ..
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reader, fishdish +, writes (24 October 2009):
 I wouldn't want to be second rung to anyone either! I don't think it's worth you confronting him over, because he WAS pretty upfront about being more interested in this other girl. I don't see any good that could come out of talking it out with him, but if you think that would make you feel better, consider it I guess, but it sounds like he wants you maybe as a fall back on girl if Ms. 9 1/2 doesn't work out. There are people that will see you as their number one. I'd look around for one of them.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 October 2009):
First of all, how dare he say what he did. Secondly, if he likes two girls at once, then he's not ready to commit to either. Thirdly, he promised to call and broke that promise. You know you desreve better treatment than this. He's not worth a moment of your time. He's not interested in you enough. Move on from him, give yourself time, and find a guy who will give you a million out of ten, and not rate or compare you to another girl.
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