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After 10 years I find I am not his one and only
Q. I have just had the shock of my life and I need your advice! Just a few weeks ago, my boyfriend and I decided it was time for us to take a break. He had been very distant over the past few months.. and confused about where to from here with h...
A. 16 January 2010: this is awful ..and im so sorry that a woman like you who is devoted to her relationship has been backstabbed by their true love. i know how it feels and it is going to be very hard for you to move on and especially when you move on and have another ... (read in full...)
Read this email message and tell me what you think!
Q. I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message ...
A. 5 November 2009: personally i dont beleive that guys talk to eachother like that ..i mean is this guy his bestfriend? cuz bestfriends tend to do that but if its just a coworker then hes lying to you. i would check the email and maybe see if that person is really who ... (read in full...)
I think he may be still in love with his ex...
Q. ive been dating this guy for almost a year now and we have gone threw alot i lost a baby with him and we live 2gether well he had told me about his ex and blah blah blah he said he almost married her and crap well i know i should of did this but i ...
A. 4 November 2009: no i think you need to talk to him about it.. theres no way to find out unless you tell him how you feel and whats going through your head.. if they were really old messages then i dont think there is anything to worry about and i would suggest ... (read in full...)
Why did he dump me and will we get back together?
Q. I dated my ex for 5 years. We were in an inter-religious relationship and his parents never knew about me. He was invited to all of my family functions and he truly adores my family and the traditions. In July his father passed away and he broke up ...
A. 2 November 2009: i would give him lots of space .. hes still hurt about his father but what i dont understand is that if anything he should be closer to you because of his loss not push you away!.. i think hes a little lost at what he wants.. he calls you crying ... (read in full...)
I'm flirting with someone's boyfriend. Does he like me?
Q. I finally told this boy I liked him, even though he has a girlfriend. He always flirts with me and the other night he was sending me some extremly flirty texts about if he didn't have a girlfriend he would get with me and do stuff. I really like...
A. 2 November 2009: agreed!!!! with quiet-echo... (read in full...)
How can I be loose when I am still a virgin?
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was minimally edited for spelling and grammar to improve legibility.] I'm worried. Basically I'm a horny girl. I can't help it, I think I'm more horny than a guy. Anyway, I masturbate a lot, like in one go, 3 times and ...
A. 2 November 2009: since you want to wait until marriage it looks to me like hes trying to get you to have sex with him. This is why he is saying these things and the fact that he said "why bother if ur already open" (like why bother waiting for marriage) so i beleive ... (read in full...)
Don't play with my heart!!!
Q. i love a korran's girl but i don't know how to say to her. Onece i tryed to say her but she refussed to be gf and bf i relized she is serious so i told her why i love so much and i will do evrything for u but she didn't say anything after that i ...
A. 31 October 2009: Talk to her to see if she feels the same way you do if not then move on dont waist your time if shes not taking you seriously and if you feel shes playing with your emotions.. only way is to talk to her and tell her how you feel.. but if she lies to ... (read in full...)
How do I reply to his text?
Q. Hey everyone. So I have been devasted and lost for the past week and a bit because my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me. It was a shock and I haven't been able to function properly all week. His is reasons for breaking up with me were the ...
A. 31 October 2009: so he said i KINDA miss you .. and u say NOTHING.. give him space let him realize what he has lost and he might come back to you but if he does u need to set rules and figure out what was the reason for him breaking up with you because if its not a ... (read in full...)
How do I sort my head out and get back on track?
Q. Hello, i would be very grateful if you could read this and not judge. I just dont know whats wrong with me, my head is so messed up. I am 17 years old and i am currently studying my A2 levels (loads of work), i just recently passed my driving ...
A. 31 October 2009: you have to find yourself and connect with urself and figure out who you are.. you have to love your body and what god has given you ..everyone is beautiful in their own way and there are people that think someone is beautiful and others might think ... (read in full...)
Should I take revenge... or should I forgive and forget?
Q. Back near the end of May I was in P.E and I didn't do it that day. I was sitting with a few of my closest friends and I suddenly got upset because I had a secret and knew it was going to blurt out. So I ran to the toilets in tears and my best ...
A. 31 October 2009: revenge will just bite you in the ass right back .. just let karma deal with it .. eventually its going to come right baack to her for breaking your trust it may take a while but when her life falls apart or if something happened that she needs you ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to fulfill his fantasy but keep him out of it?
Q. Dear Cupid. I have been in a relationship with a wounderful man, I love him very much. We should have met years ago! He is very much into women. matter of fact he makes comments often. i say he is infatuated. That is ok to a point, sure I te...
A. 28 October 2009: well i have to disagree with caring guy.. i mean it can be harmful so u have to be careful but if he told you its for a reason. he probably told you because he wants an adventure and somethin new.. if he said he just wants to watch then just go as ... (read in full...)
Ladies: what is your experience with sex on prom night?
Q. I’m going to the winter formal soon. I truely care about my boyfriend . I look forward to a the evening of dressing up etc. the thought of sex has entered my mind. If we have sex on the winter formal night I think it should be with someone like my ...
A. 28 October 2009: well im going to tell you about my prom night....
i went with my boyfriend we had an awesome time a week before i made reservations at a hotel for the night so that we can be more close. ..we went to the prom and we had a good time we danced ever... (read in full...)
Is it over between us... or not???
Q. I have been with another guy for about two years we were just friends with benefits and now we see each other at work and occasionally running into each other. He is seeing a couple of other people and still gives me that look like he still wants to ...
A. 28 October 2009: seems to me like its just a booty call.. ... (read in full...)
I don't love him any more, what should I do?
Q. hi everyone, i'm 20 years old and i'm with a 27 year old man. we have been together for a year and a half. my love from him is fading away. it is a long distance relationship, different countries. at the beginning everything was good, and we were ...
A. 28 October 2009: i think you should move on because although he doesnt want to lose you hes putting no effort and the fact that its long distance makes it worse..if he put more effort u probably wouldnt have minded the long distance thing becuz u came this far with ... (read in full...)
I wanted to understand what men think when a girl rejects them?
Q. I had met this guy that was a dj and he always asked for sexy pictures, I gave him one because I thought we were dating. I know how dumb that sounds but he convinced me. But now he wants to be friends and I stopped sending him pictures. I basically ...
A. 28 October 2009: its a challenge ..being an easy girl is a turnoff to men because its just too easy! now if your a bitch and you stand up for yourself then hes going to look at you like different from others and be like dam your a bitch but i like you cuz ur not ... (read in full...)
I've only just realised my feelings for him, am I too late?
Q. Okay so this might sound complicated. I known this guy for as long as I could remember. On my last year of high school I had several relationship problems with a certain ex. So my friend who I known for ages was there with me all the time. He ...
A. 28 October 2009: you cant expect someone to wait for someone else..life just doesnt work that way.. and its sad that now that he has changed in a good way you find that you like him.. anyways i think you should tell him how you feel and how you werent ready at the ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to go to the doctors, what could this personal problem be?
Q. im 17 years old and i have very good personal hygiene but i have a very itchy annal hole which is very annoying, when i scratch it bleeds and looks as if im on my period, when i have a feel i can feel a few pimples up there somedays it so painful ...
A. 28 October 2009: we arent doctors so we cant tell you what it is you have but it sure isnt normal ..maybe its just infected/iritated it could be from anything i think you have to overcome your fears and get to a doctor just to be on the safe side. its not good that ... (read in full...)
She says she can't stand me asking if she's seeing someone else, but she never wants to have sex! So she must be cheating, right?
Q. My girlfriend and I are having a problem seeing things from the same point of view. We've been together for almost two years and I have told her from the start that as long as we have sex and I am sexually satisfied, that we'll be happy and I w...
A. 28 October 2009: TALK ABOUT YOU JUST STABBED YOURSELF ON THIS ONE! i think you have all the responses on here that you need! and i want to tell you that i agree with every single one of these responses so if i say something im going to be repeating. PLEASE TAKE THE ... (read in full...)
How do you know if the reason you get back with your ex is you, or the new baby?
Q. Am 16 wks pregnant. Broken up with partner. He is unsupportive but acting weird. When we were together - he would buy food cos he was practically living with me and I would cook it for him. He didn't want to go to any scans or hospital appointments ...
A. 28 October 2009: only way to know is to tallk to him about it. you both have to realize that you both have to change your whole life around now thaAT there is a baby on the way so meaning he has some growing up to do as far as this girl and looking at others when ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should trust him?
Q. my partner of 6yrs went on a night out for a big game so lot's of drink consumed and when the team won partying didnt stop.... he went to a female work colleagues house who lives in the opposite direction to our house with two others after a night ...
A. 27 October 2009: you cant not trust someone if you have no proof. if theres no proof then dont stress yourself out about it. life is too short to be worrying about guys and their actions. i would be aware though and if you have been with him for a year now after ... (read in full...)
Will he consider me again if things don't work out with his wife?
Q. Hello. I dated a man 3 years ago. We dated for right at 2 years. We went through the whole break-up, get together thing for about the last 4 months. I met him at a football game. I went down and got his number, we talked on the phone every single ...
A. 24 October 2009: he is married now and he has his own life now. your job now is to move on and live your life. when you least expect it you will find someone else who will love and care for you. but like caring guy said he did not choose you or wait for you. so now ... (read in full...)
Does he not like me?
Q. Last night, I went to my school's football game because the guy that I like--who's on the team--invited me to come and watch; when the game was over he met me over by the gate where everyone comes in and asked did I enjoy it amongst other things, ...
A. 24 October 2009: so agreed from caring guy ..you can do so much better hun what he said was so out of line .. dont ever take his word again .. ... (read in full...)
Does this mean it's a date?
Q. This started about a month ago. (It's a long story) I just see him in my art lecture I started my second year at college. There is a new lad that I like. Every girl in the college like him. They are all clingy to him and always around him. I am ...
A. 24 October 2009: he does sound interested which is good and even as a gf possibly but like caring guy said take it slow you never know what are his intentions and if hes playing it smooth since all these girls at school are so attached you want to make sure hes no ... (read in full...)
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