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I've been seeing a man who has a long distance girlfriend!

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Question - (12 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *gentorange writes:

What do I do?

This man I have been seeing for about 2 weeks has a girlfriend, but she has lived out of the country for about a year. This man is also good friends with my ex boyfriend. That is how I met him. I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 6 months ago. There has always been an unspoken attraction to the man I have been seeing (while I was dating my ex) and now that I have been single for a while he made some moves.

I could totally fall for this guy if I let myself, but I don't want to get hurt. He says he doesn't want to hurt me, but I don't know. I haven't slept with him, but I have slept in his bed and made out tons. He takes me on dates and we talk every day. He tells me I'm beautiful and that he really likes me. I am attracted to him physically and emotionally. I have even met his family.

If he breaks up with his girlfriend would it be a good idea to date him?!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008):

A word of warning and caution; be carefull that you are not just going to be used whilst the girlfriend is away!

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (12 June 2008):

Tremor agony auntLeave him be until he breaks it off with his girlfriend.

Don't be the other woman.

Keep in mind that if he's willing to cheat on her he could well be just as willing to cheat on you.

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