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writes:I had prom last night and i dont whether it was one of my best nights or one of my worst.The girl who i have been into deeply for 8 months went with another guy she new outside of school...she claims that they are just good friends...I wanted to go with her but alot over the seven months happened that it became impossible for me to go with her.....before i even started liking this girl...we were atleast kind of friends and used to talk often....but ever since she came to know that i liked her, she changed her attitude towards me, she didnt interact with me alot as compared to my friends who she didnt know a short while ago, she hesitated to be around me, and therefore she is never as open with me as she is with my friends.I admit i have been impatient and saddened with all these little things...but i never understood why she always behaves with me this way...she is a really nice girl and i know that. I have had alot of crushes in the past but as for this girl i am supposedly the only guy who has really liked her out of every other guy at school...but she has alot of crushes as well...As for prom, i have shown calmness and that i am happy for her having a date, but deep inside i was heartbroken, and that started to appear when she was dancing with him for a long long time...but even this wont change my feeling for her, and i wont get over her even if it hurts me bad...I dont know what to do now?i feel like i am dead...paralized and everything has taken a brake...i dont even know how i am gonna be around her and what i will do to change things...i really really need help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): Sorry to hear this bud. Yes, she doesnt share the same feelings and that can hurt a ton pal I know. Ive had it happen. Definitely try to keep your mind off her by staying busy with any activity and minimize contact with her. Avoid taking classes with her and even try to cut off mutual friends too if that is what is needed to distance yourself. Youll recover man!! Us men always do lol! Stay positive! :)
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reader, thomas1214 +, writes (15 April 2011):
move on man. you are in the "friend" zone. just keep living your life the way you usually do without thinking about her. oh ya your chances of getting out of the friend zone is impossible
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reader, Trinklett +, writes (15 April 2011):
 Its obvious she doesn't have feelings for you. You HAVE to turn your focus away from her. If you play any kind of sports, get to know their practice time and get involved - gradually I. Mean. Don't throw yourself into anything. You're going through emotions right now and need to stay focused. Don't ignore her totally too an occasional hello would do. Have any good friends? They'll also support you.
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reader, higgy  +, writes (15 April 2011):
The best thing you can do is just let it go... I know that sounds bad and will be hard to do, but if she knows you like her and is distancing herself from you after finding that out it means the feelings aren't mutual. No matter what you do or how much you want that to change you can't make someone feel a way they don't.
My advise is to distances yourself from her and contact her as little as possible. Give yourself time and let yourself get over her. I'm sure someone is out there for you that will return your feelings. Just be patient and you will find her one day.
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