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I cannot have an orgasm with boyfriend, should I break up with him?

Q.   Hi All, I hope I can get some advise on this. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. The relationship is fine but I have never once had an orgasm with him, I can by myself but not with him. The sex is just awful and always leaves me...

A.   19 April 2011: What about oral? My ex was awful in bed and didn't last long so he would always get me off through oral before penetration... What if he gets off through masturbates or oral right before sex? That made my ex last a little longer. Pills is something ... (read in full...)

Is it unusual that I'm 18 and have never had sex?

Q.   Is it really that unusual that I'm nearly 18, living in London (UK capital) and have never had sex or done anything close - never even kissed anyone? It doesn't bother me and I don't feel any pressure to do so; nor am I physically repulsiv...

A.   19 April 2011: No it is perfectly normal and probably better to not do it yet. Its not good to rush into things latter on you will probably regret it if you do. I was 18 when I had my first kiss and I had just turned 20 when I lost my virginity... Take as much ... (read in full...)

If you were in my place, out of the choice of 3 truly amazing guys, which would you go for?

Q.   Hey Aunties and Uncles :) I was just wondering, out of the choice of 3 truly amazing guys, which would you go for? Guy 1: met him at a party last week, he is the same age as me (17), we had a lot of fun together just kissing but he is a virgin. ...

A.   18 April 2011: Guy number 1! In my experience nothing good comes from a guy that drinks a lot (so 2 is out) and number 3 is WAY too old for you! Nothing is wrong with number 1 being a virgin. All that means is you can teach him what feels good. ... (read in full...)

I don't want to go out to have drinks/dinner alone on my birthday and end up looking like a total loser to everyone else!

Q.   Hello all.. I'll be turning 22 in a few days and I'm not sure what to do. I've been in a pretty low place in my life lately. I don't socialize at all, I barely talk to anyone except for my bf who lives 3hrs away. I was hoping to be able to spend...

A.   18 April 2011: You always have the option of lying to your family. You could say that "you missed them so you came home to see them for your birthday".... (read in full...)

Did she reject me? Should I quit talking to her?

Q.   So this girl and I (she's a freshmen in highschool and im a junior in highschool) have been talking for a couple of weeks and I thought things were going pretty good. And then we stopped talking for a couple of days cause we both thought ea...

A.   18 April 2011: Just be straight up and ask her why she didn't MSG you, but be nice about it. If it sounds like her answer is total BS then she probably isn't into you and she just didn't want to hurt you, or she is still mad at you.... (read in full...)

Deep down I'm heartbroken. How do I make it better? She took another guy to Prom!

Q.   I had prom last night and i dont whether it was one of my best nights or one of my worst. The girl who i have been into deeply for 8 months went with another guy she new outside of school...she claims that they are just good friends... I wa...

A.   15 April 2011: The best thing you can do is just let it go... I know that sounds bad and will be hard to do, but if she knows you like her and is distancing herself from you after finding that out it means the feelings aren't mutual. No matter what you do or how ... (read in full...)

Should I be his mother, or lay off?

Q.   My fiance is starting to really pissed me off, and making me second guess my future with him! I am so TIRED of having to be his "mother" in EVERYTHING! Whenever I have to go to work, and hes home all day, I have to write a little list of things ...

A.   15 April 2011: I use to be in a relationship with a guy like that. I finally dumped him because it got to the point that he wouldn't even work and I was having to pay my bills plus his. I realized that I was only 21 I shouldn't be acting like I was a mother of a ... (read in full...)

Does he like me? We had a fun night, now all he does is stare.

Q.   I have lived next to this guy for about eighteen years. I am now eighteen. We were best friends from pretty much birth until fourteen when we both went away to boarding school. Random right? Finally we are now back finishing up our senior year ...

A.   15 April 2011: It sounds like he still likes you. Try hanging out with him alone and find a way to give him your phone number. I know it is costume for the guy to make the first move but sometimes the girl has to give him a little help. ... (read in full...)

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